How long, on average, is your typical conversation with your S/O? How often do you speak?
For me I'd say our average is 15 minutes.
We talk about 4 times a day. 1. He quick wake up calls me in the AM 2. 15 min call while I'm walking into work and he's driving to school 3. I quick wake up call him in the PM 4. 15 min call while he's driving to work and I'm going to bed.
We pack a lot into those 2 small conversations most days. Some days though I feel like like they crash and burn. It's like I get flustered trying to make the most of those few small moments. I try and keep a list of things on my phone of things I want to mention or talk about so I don't have to fish for them when talking. There are things on that list that have been there for a long time because they require longer than 15 minutes. Someday.
For me I'd say our average is 15 minutes.
We talk about 4 times a day. 1. He quick wake up calls me in the AM 2. 15 min call while I'm walking into work and he's driving to school 3. I quick wake up call him in the PM 4. 15 min call while he's driving to work and I'm going to bed.
We pack a lot into those 2 small conversations most days. Some days though I feel like like they crash and burn. It's like I get flustered trying to make the most of those few small moments. I try and keep a list of things on my phone of things I want to mention or talk about so I don't have to fish for them when talking. There are things on that list that have been there for a long time because they require longer than 15 minutes. Someday.
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