Not talking since a week

[Broken Heart]

Im sorry you are going through this you are not alone we all have in our own way the same situation. I personally went for weeks without hearing from him then he would come home like nothing happen.sometimes people get so wrapped up in their self they don't consider others. So whether its because he could get to a phone cause he couldn't get passed his arrogance or he didn't want to hurt you by telling you it's the distance .... Finding out or not finding out the pain is still as great..

[Unicorn26]

I'm sorry you're going through this, it happened to me too. My SO and I talked every day without fail then one day he just disappeared. I was so worried, I knew something was wrong. People kept telling me to calm down he would get back to me when he could but I knew deep down something was really wrong and it was. He had acute liver failure and had collapsed at home, luckily he had called his dad first and told him to come over ASAP otherwise he would have died there, alone on his living room floor.
It was almost 2 weeks before I heard from him again, he had been in ICU and had to be tied down on the bed and sedated because he was going crazy due to swelling on his brain. He told me later he was going insane trying to pull his drips out because he wanted to call me as he knew I'd be going out of my mind and he was right! I'm not trying to worry you by this, just trying to say listen to your instincts and trust them. They are usually right. I would try and contact a friend or family member. Not knowing is by far the worst thing. Even if what you hear isn't good, at least you will know and be able to deal with it. I wish you luck, I hope this gets resolved ASAP and you get the answers you're looking for.

[differentcountries]

I really understand your need for clarity. DC's point would be fine if the relationship had lasted for 3 weeks, but 3 months non stop communication needs some sort of closure.

Most people want closure. Usually, though, when people feel bad, real closure is not to be found because they don't even know themselves how to explain why they want out or why they can't just say so in a normal fashion. If pushed, exes will typically give out either useless sugercoating of what happened or very hurtful statements (far, far more hurtful than just "LD was too hard on me "). And it might not even be true, so the closurepart is still useless. People say stupid things about things they feel ashamed about having done, and abruptly ending romantic relationships are no exeption. Emotionally overload is greatly underestimated as people's real experience of their life. If you were not able to navigate past that overload as their gf or bf, the breakup is not going to help you. My ex used three years to come up with anything even remotely helpful as to why she withdrew from our relationship.

[NadWil]

Have you heard anything from him yet?

[TheSteelAngel]

Have you heard anything from him yet?

Yes I would like to know too.