I love him, but both of us are in a difficult situation.
I´m with the project of building a new business (with not even the cash to start I need to start from zero and the basic things), I can´t go and visit him because the ticket is incredibly expensive so, he offered to come, but he is also in a really difficult economic situation, he is living with his parents and he is not having any client currently.
Today he just told me how frustrated he feels of having too much problems at his home and not having enough to come and visit me, he try to promote his business and he has done everything he can to accumulate the money, he sold some of his stuff but it´s not enough.
I have a house and I plan to make my business and live there, is an incredible house, and as he is not going to be able to be visiting me because of how expensive are the trips we decided that when he comes, he is going to stay.
We have an incredible relationship, we love and care for each other, but sometimes I get worried about him, I don´t want our relationship to be a source of frustration for him, I love him, more and more every day and we have 7 months together.
At the moment I don´t know what to do, we speak a lot in our days, so I have not much time to work on my things but it breaks my heart to live him alone, I´m scared of not having a stable economy and not being able to sustain my house and business but the most important of everything…
I don´t want this beautiful thing we have to disappear under the need of money and the uncertainty…
What can I do to console my SO?
Am I causing him more pain than happiness?
I´m with the project of building a new business (with not even the cash to start I need to start from zero and the basic things), I can´t go and visit him because the ticket is incredibly expensive so, he offered to come, but he is also in a really difficult economic situation, he is living with his parents and he is not having any client currently.
Today he just told me how frustrated he feels of having too much problems at his home and not having enough to come and visit me, he try to promote his business and he has done everything he can to accumulate the money, he sold some of his stuff but it´s not enough.
I have a house and I plan to make my business and live there, is an incredible house, and as he is not going to be able to be visiting me because of how expensive are the trips we decided that when he comes, he is going to stay.
We have an incredible relationship, we love and care for each other, but sometimes I get worried about him, I don´t want our relationship to be a source of frustration for him, I love him, more and more every day and we have 7 months together.
At the moment I don´t know what to do, we speak a lot in our days, so I have not much time to work on my things but it breaks my heart to live him alone, I´m scared of not having a stable economy and not being able to sustain my house and business but the most important of everything…
I don´t want this beautiful thing we have to disappear under the need of money and the uncertainty…
What can I do to console my SO?
Am I causing him more pain than happiness?
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