What's cheating for you?

[aniay]

Oh I am not saying in your relationship! I mean in general! There is a lot of things people wouldn't mind sharing with their SO, but the other person would consider cheating, so this is hard to say. I completely agree with miasmata and you, you should always talk to your so about what you two consider cheating.

Yes, that is true which is why at the begining all the boundaries should be set. Thinking about it... is my SO did something I considered cheating and then told me about it before I told him it is cheating for me... Depending on the circumstances I could understand and just ask him to never do that again.

But on the other hand we are in LD relationship, some of us have sex mainly online and we consider it something important and special so sharing the same thing with someone else... well that is a bit weird that someone wouldn't consider it important enough to not do it with anyone else.