It's over.

[Cat-and-Austin]

After almost three years together we broke up. She had decided that she would rather stay out and enjoy the party route while at university than make time for our relationship. I feel so lost and confused at the moment and not really sure how to go about and handle all the emotions that are flooding through me right now.

I just wanted to say thanks for the support of the forum here and all the great members. I'm not sure if i'll still linger on here or not.

[differentcountries]

I am sorry to hear that.

[Unicorn26]

I'm so sorry.....

[sweetshay]

I'm sorry that things could not work out. If you decide to stop posting that's understandable but you are always welcome, LDR or not. I wish you the best of luck and keep your head up. You will get through this!

[p_b82]

Sorry to hear that you have split up, breakups are never easy.... Hope you are able to sort yourself out in due course and move on with your life, whichever route that it might take you.

[Colourfuldreamsx]

Sorry to hear that wishing you all the best for the future.

[Sarah96]

That sucks, I'm really sorry I definitely know the feeling of wanting to go out and have a good time and party and stuff while being at my university which is in the city and the main reason I wanted to go there to explore the city and have fun but I really haven't had too much time to do that since I spend my free time talking with my boyfriend because of our schedule. It's hard balancing a LDR with being able to go out and party when you want to. I hope the two of you work things out and I wish you two the best!

[Dwessie]

Who even throws away 3 years of anything? Sounds like she's not mature enough for any of this anyway, there's better people to spend your time on.

[R&R]

I'm sorry it didn't work out. Don't feel that you need to leave just because you aren't in a LDR. I hope you take the time you need to heal and move forward.

[aojeda50]

This does suck. Upside is at least she was honest and open about her thoughts, rather than falling into temptation and cheating.
Maybe after a couple years of your SO in college, and the party phase is over, then perhaps you can continue where you left off.
Wish the best for you

[Phenomena]

I'm so sorry to hear that. Best wishes to you.

[Miasmata]

A shame it came to that, but at least she was honest. Take good care of yourself, I wish you all the best.

[Ahava]

I'm really sorry this happened to you and for all the pain and hurt it is causing.
Hang around the forum if you feel like it or come back after a little break if it reminds you too much of your relationship at the moment.
Take care of yourself.

[WorshipLove]

Hey, try not to give up. Try to speak to her & understand why . Maybe you'll cross paths one day and that she was meant to be yours.