I felt really depressed this morning because he didn't text me when he got home like he said he would, but he texted me when he woke up saying that he was sorry that he didn't text me. He fell asleep as soon as he got home like I thought. Lol this boy's sleeping habits are driving me crazy, but other than that I'm fine with dealing with this new change. It's going to be hard to get used to though haha
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Oh dear, that wasn't a great start was it lol!
These silly boys, they don't realise just how much no contact worries us. I had the same thing yesterday, no contact from SO after he dropped a bombshell that he just found out his cousin has been found dead. He's had a few anxiety attacks recently and I was extremely worried about him. It ended up with me having a serious sense of humour bypass and some stern words were exchanged between us. All is good now tho....
You need to tell him how important it is that he texts you to let you know he's alright. It only takes a second, there really is no excuse, he needs to try harder. At least he text you eventually and apologised tho.... ~sigh~
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Originally posted by Unicorn26 View PostOh dear, that wasn't a great start was it lol!
These silly boys, they don't realise just how much no contact worries us. I had the same thing yesterday, no contact from SO after he dropped a bombshell that he just found out his cousin has been found dead. He's had a few anxiety attacks recently and I was extremely worried about him. It ended up with me having a serious sense of humour bypass and some stern words were exchanged between us. All is good now tho....
You need to tell him how important it is that he texts you to let you know he's alright. It only takes a second, there really is no excuse, he needs to try harder. At least he text you eventually and apologised tho.... ~sigh~
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Originally posted by TheSteelAngel View PostMy best friend literally just told me this exact same thing lol. I have told him before that texting/messaging me is important and yet he still ends up passed out in his bed and leaves me hanging. I'm really worried about his sleeping habits though. He once told me that even if he gets 15 hours of sleep he still feels tired. I told him he needs to get some help or see someone about this, and he told me that he has tried but nothing really helped. I don't really know what to do about this but at least I know that he's not doing this on purpose. I just feel bad that he's always so tired now.
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Originally posted by Unicorn26 View PostMine is like that too. He's had sleep problems for a long time. Goes for days with no sleep, then sleeps all day and all night. Drives me insane.
I just wanna pick him up, bring him over here and sort him out!!! Ha!
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This sounds like my life! My boyfriend is a policeman too and im a teacher and has just started his shifts of 6pm- 3am so I know how you feel.
The way I see it, a text is better than no contact and although it's not ideal, it's the way it has to be. I know I may not get a reply straight away but I know he does as soon as he can. I also send him funny pictures throughout the day to make him smile when he does read it and show im thinking of him. I know how you feel and it's hard, but yes, keeping yourself busy is super important!! X
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Originally posted by Farawayhan View PostThis sounds like my life! My boyfriend is a policeman too and im a teacher and has just started his shifts of 6pm- 3am so I know how you feel.
The way I see it, a text is better than no contact and although it's not ideal, it's the way it has to be. I know I may not get a reply straight away but I know he does as soon as he can. I also send him funny pictures throughout the day to make him smile when he does read it and show im thinking of him. I know how you feel and it's hard, but yes, keeping yourself busy is super important!! X
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Originally posted by whatruckus View PostSpeaking of this, I haven't talked to my SO in like 2 days because all he's been doing is sleeping when he gets home from work. Yay. No contact from him whatsoever. -_-
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I swear we are dating the same person! The problem is, is that I assume the worst when I don't get a reply, I haven't spoken to him since 5.30pm and his phone is off. I know if I was him, I'd have sent a quick text saying 'phone gonna die, talk tomorrow ', but boys don't think like that I often ask my boy if he's free and he doesn't answer me, very frustrating but I know he doesn't always know for certain x
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Originally posted by Farawayhan View PostI swear we are dating the same person! The problem is, is that I assume the worst when I don't get a reply, I haven't spoken to him since 5.30pm and his phone is off. I know if I was him, I'd have sent a quick text saying 'phone gonna die, talk tomorrow ', but boys don't think like that I often ask my boy if he's free and he doesn't answer me, very frustrating but I know he doesn't always know for certain x
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