I use 'Vanishes' when my GF does it, and she does it a lot typically over weekends. Never anything to red flag thing, but it can be annoying - but I have learnt to just let it go. (with her kids and dog and everything else, sometimes she just needs to focus on them or herself for a while)
Don't send a message 'offline' that you want an immediate response to, wait til they are around always helps, and don't let the mind wander.
My worry is that she is ok, not that she is doing something I would not wish her to, but she got to her 30's, with her kids all fine before I came along, and I know she is perfectly capable of looking after herself, even if I want to wrap her in a layer of cotton wool and send her out again, just to be on the safe side lol
Don't send a message 'offline' that you want an immediate response to, wait til they are around always helps, and don't let the mind wander.
My worry is that she is ok, not that she is doing something I would not wish her to, but she got to her 30's, with her kids all fine before I came along, and I know she is perfectly capable of looking after herself, even if I want to wrap her in a layer of cotton wool and send her out again, just to be on the safe side lol
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