So me and my SO have been together for 5 months and i am divorced. This has truly been the best relationship i have ever been in. I am so in love with this man but we cant close the distance do to his financial responsibilities ( child support) I keep thinking to myself is it worth the wait.
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How old is his kid?I made love to him only twice, she thought and looked at the man laying asleep beside her. And yet still it is as if we have been together forever, as if he has always known my life, my soul, my body, my light, my pain
- Paulo Coelho, "Eleven minutes"
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I think you're the only one who can make that decision. Are you willing to wait for years if that is how long it would take? If the answer is no, then you know what you have to do. If it's yes, then hang in there. You'll have good and bad moments, but at least you aren't that far from each other. You are still able to see each other fairly regularly (I assume) instead of some of us who are going several months if not years in between visits.Comment
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I have to agree with MyDutchLove.
You are the only one that can decide if it IS worth it or not."We are beings attracted to the essence of hope, and life is the all encompassing hope that everything can change; that everything can be better."Comment
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She is 12Comment
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I try to visit twice a month at leastComment
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If you really like him it's totally doable!!!
Could you move there?Comment
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I don't know your situation, but in my case visiting is far more expensive then closing the distance. If you visit twice a month or more I guess you live relatively close. What does he need to close the distance? (if he will consider being close distance with his kid instead). Also you could consider moving to his place.I made love to him only twice, she thought and looked at the man laying asleep beside her. And yet still it is as if we have been together forever, as if he has always known my life, my soul, my body, my light, my pain
- Paulo Coelho, "Eleven minutes"
"Bız yüzyılın aşkı vardır" - We have dated since Sept. 2013. To see our full story, click here https://members.lovingfromadistance....and-our-visitsComment
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How long will you need to wait to close the distance?Love is patient, Love is kind, Love never fails.Comment
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Looking at the age of the kid, probably about 6 years if child support is till 18 (as it is in UK).
Your distance is not that big, you can do this if you really want it. When I was married, for a while my husband and I did opposite shifts, although we lived in the same house we literally wouldn't see each other all week as we were never home at the same time.
If you want this relationship badly enough, anything is possible.Comment
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If he is in a situation where he can't move, then are you able to move to him if you are able to find a job? Right now you are only a couple of hour apart and you get to see him pretty frequently until you can figure that out.
If you really love this man and he this is the best relationship you have been in - I wonder why you even question if it's worth the wait. To me, there wouldn't be an ounce of hesitation if it was worth waiting if this was the case.To those who dream, nothing is ever far away.
Distance is to love as wind is to fire. It blows out the little ones and fans the big ones.
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People can say and do terrible things in spite of anger.
Just think of the possibilities of what people can do when they are 'in love.'
I'd say it's worth a shot to pursue. Give it time and you can see what happens. You will always regret never exactly trying.
Plus, you are in a better situation than most. If you can visit twice a month is good. Not everyone met their SO, or visit once a year.
Goodluck
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