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Originally posted by pinkmadness View PostWow! Congratulations! I'm glad that it worked out for you. And I don't know what to do anymore, he seem to give up already, so maybe we're really not compatible.
You have to both really be on board and want it, and in it for the long haul.
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I know. That's what I've been telling him. We can't just move in each other's country without having to deal with all the necessary paperworks, but he doesn't seem to care much about that. It's hard to make him see reason when he's made up his mind. And yes, he's still in university, but when I asked him if he has definite plans for the future, all he said was "Do I look like a guy with a plan? You became my plan."
I'm not getting my hopes up that we'll be able to get past this problem, neither does he. But I really appreciate your advice.
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Originally posted by pinkmadness View PostI already showed him this thread, but instead of being enlightened, he got quite pissed off. I don't think he can handle a long distance relationshipI made love to him only twice, she thought and looked at the man laying asleep beside her. And yet still it is as if we have been together forever, as if he has always known my life, my soul, my body, my light, my pain
- Paulo Coelho, "Eleven minutes"
"Bız yüzyılın aşkı vardır" - We have dated since Sept. 2013. To see our full story, click here https://members.lovingfromadistance....and-our-visits
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If he really relies on you to be "his plan" and he's rushing you this much about relocation when you haven't even met in person, he really needs to make a decision - Either he finally learns to slow down and give this relationship the time it needs and deserve, or he has to ask himself if this is really the right relationship. You said you aren't happy with things being this way, that is something you both have to take seriously. Sit down and really level with each other, and if there is no good agreement to be found, you might have to reconsider if you are right for each other.
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Thanks for all your advice, I really appreciate it. My SO and I have decided that we should just break things off...for quite some time. We still talk, but we're not together anymore. We both think its for the best. And if we're really meant to be with each other in the future, we will be. We're gonna focus on our future careers first, and we'll see from then.
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Good for you to stand up for your education.I made love to him only twice, she thought and looked at the man laying asleep beside her. And yet still it is as if we have been together forever, as if he has always known my life, my soul, my body, my light, my pain
- Paulo Coelho, "Eleven minutes"
"Bız yüzyılın aşkı vardır" - We have dated since Sept. 2013. To see our full story, click here https://members.lovingfromadistance....and-our-visits
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