What would you do?

[Redheart14]

May as well bring this thread to a close.

In less than a month I have gone from being in a relationship that made me happy (even if there were a few niggles, that I thought we could work out) to being dumped - and it was not because of the distance.

She emailed yesterday after not contacting me while she thought it all over, that was over. she loves me with all that she is, but is no longer in love with me; and is not willing to see if that spark can be rekindled.

So my second LDR has now come to an end, in two different decades of my life, with a failed CD relationship inbetween - so not sure if any advice I have given is worth a pinch of salt, I may stick around after this, but probably not much tbh as I don't want to be all negative and bring people down.....

Good luck to those in LDR's - remember to trust your gut over your heart if you think something is amiss and raise concerns about it asap, and hopefully you will avoid the heartache I am now going through

I'm so sorry! If you want to talk, We are all here for you. I like your advice it'd be a shame if you left. Take time to heal

[Miasmata]

Really sorry to hear it But it really doesn't invalidate anything you said. I still think you are a very valuable person to have around. Do what you need for yourself now and take good care, but don't be afraid to stick around. I think the future will get brighter for you again!