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**R&R** · February 1, 2015, 05:14 PM

This is why they say love is blind. You can see the evidence of her relationship with someone else with your own eyes but will still believe the lies she tells you. I'm sorry, but you need to move on. She already did, apparently before you were even over, and has been with this same person for over a month.

You are her backup guy. If things don't work with this guy, she knows she has you waiting. Don't play the fool. Don't contact her as it won't change anything. Block her and get your life back on track.

**lykim** · February 1, 2015, 05:20 PM

Move on, she already did.

**Wolv** · February 1, 2015, 05:28 PM

Unfortunately I agree with R&R. If they have moved on after only a month after both of you agree to give each other space then they never really loved you. I don't see how anyone can move on after a month if they truly loved you.

When you take a break from your relationship you aren't supposed to go out and date other people unless that was explicitly mentioned when you mutually decide to take a break. I've taken breaks in past relationships, and even in my current relationship we've taken time apart during difficult times in order to save our relationship. When taking a break we took the time to get our feelings and minds/thoughts clear in order to talk about our problem and find a solution when all the negitive emotions like anger had settled. The break wasn't used to find someone new to replace each other. If they wanted to find someone new they should have ended the relationship, not asked for a break.

Your S/O is probably using the person from Instagram to get over you; a rebound relationship. Either way I think you should move on, no need to cause your self more hurt/pain questioning their actions and believing their lies (which seem obvious to me). They are moving on and you should too. It might hurt now but in the long run it will be better.

**differentcountries** · February 1, 2015, 05:44 PM

You don't need a confrontation. You just need to never contact her again, since she obviously hooked up with someone else. Next time you are in a relationship; family issues and friendship issues are not reasons to take a break or break up, those are reasons to stay together and fight together. When I met my SO, his sister had been dead just 6 months. You didn't see me having any breakes with him when he became distant, on the contrary I was his excuse to break out from his year of grief to celebrate his birthday again (she dided 2 weeks before his previous birthday). Move on. She doesn't even have the shame to tell you she is dating someone else when it is clear as day, and you have wasted enough time on someone who is no longer interested.

**Honour** · February 1, 2015, 05:46 PM

She's just gonna make you look like a romantically-blind fool, and that's it. Fact of the matter is, she's cruelly gone and done what a lot of people seem to do these days. Time to move on, OP.

**TheSteelAngel** · February 1, 2015, 06:50 PM

Nobody wants to hear the words "You should leave" or "Break up with him/her" when asking for relationship advice even when the truth is staring you in the face, but unfortunately I have to agree with everyone else here because there is no relationship here anymore. Don't waste your time trying to fix something that doesn't exist anymore.

**Maxy54321** · February 1, 2015, 07:03 PM