its been more than a week since my boyfriend went back to his home, Germany. But while he was waiting for his plane, i was on the phone with him and listening to his future plans. I know its hard for him to leave cause i can hear the sadness on his voice. And there he told me about looking for a better place where we can live together.
I am from a Philippines, he is from Germany. Actually, just hearing him say about living together in one place makes me feel very special cause i did not expect those are already playing on his mind. He didn't mentioned anything about his other plans except from the fact that he will come back after 5 months. And now as days past of texting and calling, there's always a time when we have to ask each other of " why are you there, not here?", "i miss you wish you are here", "i wanna have breakfast with you", things like those. i know it's normal cause we are obviously in a long distance relationship, but every time i have to say good night to him and good morning to me, we always comes to a point of wishing we are staying together. He lives in a cold and wet place, i lived in a very hot country. He always say that it's gonna hard for me to live in his country, First because i easily get cold. We normally have 25-29 degree, and he often tell me they have 0 to negative degrees. hahahahaa. how can i survived there.Second is which is for supposed to be the first, the language. German is very obvious a very complicated one. I have to learn their language before so i can even visit. Now the funny thing is i cant even pronounced the word -ich properly. hahahaha. He has to say it a hundred times before i try it myself and still he is laughing at me. hahahhaha. It's one of the basic and how can i survived then. I need a job also when i need to stay there. Searched for what job can fit me if ever i moved there, ofcourse one of the requirement is to be german speaker. there are work for english but atleast you have to be familiar with german language. And now the only solution is to maybe find a place where we can live together. And now he is asking me if i have an idea. i keep on saying, his country is okay for me. he doesn't have to do the adjustment since his life is there, his work is there, since it's me who is also looking for a better work outside
Now i just want to here some advice from you guys, since both of us are really have no idea about it.
I am from a Philippines, he is from Germany. Actually, just hearing him say about living together in one place makes me feel very special cause i did not expect those are already playing on his mind. He didn't mentioned anything about his other plans except from the fact that he will come back after 5 months. And now as days past of texting and calling, there's always a time when we have to ask each other of " why are you there, not here?", "i miss you wish you are here", "i wanna have breakfast with you", things like those. i know it's normal cause we are obviously in a long distance relationship, but every time i have to say good night to him and good morning to me, we always comes to a point of wishing we are staying together. He lives in a cold and wet place, i lived in a very hot country. He always say that it's gonna hard for me to live in his country, First because i easily get cold. We normally have 25-29 degree, and he often tell me they have 0 to negative degrees. hahahahaa. how can i survived there.Second is which is for supposed to be the first, the language. German is very obvious a very complicated one. I have to learn their language before so i can even visit. Now the funny thing is i cant even pronounced the word -ich properly. hahahaha. He has to say it a hundred times before i try it myself and still he is laughing at me. hahahhaha. It's one of the basic and how can i survived then. I need a job also when i need to stay there. Searched for what job can fit me if ever i moved there, ofcourse one of the requirement is to be german speaker. there are work for english but atleast you have to be familiar with german language. And now the only solution is to maybe find a place where we can live together. And now he is asking me if i have an idea. i keep on saying, his country is okay for me. he doesn't have to do the adjustment since his life is there, his work is there, since it's me who is also looking for a better work outside
Now i just want to here some advice from you guys, since both of us are really have no idea about it.
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