Coping with seperation

[Britt6]

i wished it was as easy as just another visit but one of us would have to quit our job again and if we quit our job getting him down here will only be harder all the paperwork itself is not cheap plus having money saved for his flight when its ready,and marriage license i think the 2 of us are aware the next time we'll see each other will be when hes down..hopefully for good..its just a lot to process i guess, I know neither of us have regrets.. meeting was one of the most amazing things that could happen for us and we're both better for it

[differentcountries]

i wished it was as easy as just another visit but one of us would have to quit our job again

Most of us actually doesn't quit our jobs to visit our SOs... We use our vacation time or compensatory time to go. I guess what you mean is a few weeks vacation would be short compared to what you are used to, so you don't see the point.