Hi all, I only found this forum today and have had a quick look around and it looks like a great place I can read and get advice from. I met this girl on Twitter back October and within 1 week we were texting and we got to know each other and was texting at least 6 - 7 hours a day. She always said she weren't looking to date and we are friends, a few conversations did kinda go beyond friends, but not in a deep and heavy way.
Around Christmas she met up with an old friend and pushed me aside, which I found out later was unintentional, but hurt at the time. When I asked her at the time, she got defensive, denied it and we ended up arguing and boxing day we stopped talking for 7 weeks. She made contact with me again, apologising saying it was all her fault can I forgive her which I did.
So we started talking again middle of February and still getting on great now. This time things appear to be different between us. I say this as she has sent me a lot of pics of herself at night (not nude or anything like that) just under the bedding in or sitting on her bed, I send her back as well and it is nice. She have also told me last week that 'she wishes she was coming home to me' and how she wants to spend a weekend at an hotel just us two in bed all day watching films on a tablet/laptop, which I thought was quite obvious what she means, unless I am total wrong and in a friends only way.
Also talking about my t-shirts I own last night, she said if she was my girlfriend she would be pinching them all, and this is something she never said to me before. Also recently she have said in a 3am text that she thinks i am devilishly handsome and wish she could spend the day with me. I am not great at relationships and have had bad experiences in the past, so I am unsure fully what to make of it all.
We live 5 hours apart, but we are in the same country (the UK) so time difference is not a problem. There is an age gap too, I am 37 and she is 21, but we get on really great and it is not a problem due to same interests. Also we have never met.
Sorry for the long post, but I have not had anyone to really talk to this about and if I am reading things correctly that she could be interested in an relationship with me, and I am guessing to start talking to me after 7 weeks and apologising there must be something there, as we were only friends for 6 weeks before the argument.
Thanks for any advice on how I could bring this idea up of a long distance relationship with her, as I really would love to be her boyfriend as she is lovely, but also very frustrating and hard work (Though that could be a distance problem more than her) Thanks.
Anthony
Around Christmas she met up with an old friend and pushed me aside, which I found out later was unintentional, but hurt at the time. When I asked her at the time, she got defensive, denied it and we ended up arguing and boxing day we stopped talking for 7 weeks. She made contact with me again, apologising saying it was all her fault can I forgive her which I did.
So we started talking again middle of February and still getting on great now. This time things appear to be different between us. I say this as she has sent me a lot of pics of herself at night (not nude or anything like that) just under the bedding in or sitting on her bed, I send her back as well and it is nice. She have also told me last week that 'she wishes she was coming home to me' and how she wants to spend a weekend at an hotel just us two in bed all day watching films on a tablet/laptop, which I thought was quite obvious what she means, unless I am total wrong and in a friends only way.
Also talking about my t-shirts I own last night, she said if she was my girlfriend she would be pinching them all, and this is something she never said to me before. Also recently she have said in a 3am text that she thinks i am devilishly handsome and wish she could spend the day with me. I am not great at relationships and have had bad experiences in the past, so I am unsure fully what to make of it all.
We live 5 hours apart, but we are in the same country (the UK) so time difference is not a problem. There is an age gap too, I am 37 and she is 21, but we get on really great and it is not a problem due to same interests. Also we have never met.
Sorry for the long post, but I have not had anyone to really talk to this about and if I am reading things correctly that she could be interested in an relationship with me, and I am guessing to start talking to me after 7 weeks and apologising there must be something there, as we were only friends for 6 weeks before the argument.
Thanks for any advice on how I could bring this idea up of a long distance relationship with her, as I really would love to be her boyfriend as she is lovely, but also very frustrating and hard work (Though that could be a distance problem more than her) Thanks.
Anthony
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