I am a 32 year old woman, in love with a 39 year old man whom I met 2 and a half years ago, and our relationship is mostly by distance now due to work. He is recently divorced from his wife with whom he has an 8 year old daughter - he left his home country 5 years ago to work here because of the economical situation in his country and was unable to return home during that period due to visa restrictions. Consequently his wife began a relationship with another man with whom she and my bf's daughter are now living with. My boyfriend remains bitter about the situation and has vowed never to return home, and I feel he is still very much in love with his wife and would still be with her if not for the political and economical difficulties at home. I can’t get past my own insecurity about the relationship and am not convinced he truly wants to be with me, but rather just needs a distraction from the fact that his (extremely beautiful) wife is now with another man. Even though we met whilst he was still officially married, I hesitated at any involvement and only now things have finished with his wife has he shown that he wants to take our relationship more seriously. By nature, I run from uncomfortable situations and have missed out many times on what could have been good relationships due to my own doubt and insecurities, should I give this one a chance, or break it off before my heart is broken?? 
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