Hello Everybody!
My SO is visiting in about 4 days time and we have been counting down to this day for almost a month. Constantly sending texts to each other and talking to each other on the phone all day and skyping.
Then suddenly, 2 nights ago (DAY0), she suddenly started going cold on me out of a sudden. On that night, we talked on the phone for 2 hours (considered long on our usual standards) and then instead of saying the usual stuff like 'I miss you' and things like that before the end of the conversation. She just said bye, and hung up.
She then didn't messaged me till like 6pm the next day (DAY1) where she said that she was busy with school work and stuff.( It's her holiday now, so she actually has plenty of freetime on her hands) We texted abit where we just asked each other 'how was your day' and I told her that I was going to bed.
The next morning (DAY2) I woke up to find that she has not replied to my message even though she has seen it. She even posted something on Instagram today, so she couldn't really find an excuse of being busy.
I've been having plenty of sleepless nights the last few nights in thinking what I've done wrong and things like that. This has never happened and I'm really hurt and confused. I've been looking forward to our meetup for such a long time and it really sucks for something like this to happen now.
What should I do?
Appreciate any comments from any of you here.
Thanks!
4lom
My SO is visiting in about 4 days time and we have been counting down to this day for almost a month. Constantly sending texts to each other and talking to each other on the phone all day and skyping.
Then suddenly, 2 nights ago (DAY0), she suddenly started going cold on me out of a sudden. On that night, we talked on the phone for 2 hours (considered long on our usual standards) and then instead of saying the usual stuff like 'I miss you' and things like that before the end of the conversation. She just said bye, and hung up.
She then didn't messaged me till like 6pm the next day (DAY1) where she said that she was busy with school work and stuff.( It's her holiday now, so she actually has plenty of freetime on her hands) We texted abit where we just asked each other 'how was your day' and I told her that I was going to bed.
The next morning (DAY2) I woke up to find that she has not replied to my message even though she has seen it. She even posted something on Instagram today, so she couldn't really find an excuse of being busy.
I've been having plenty of sleepless nights the last few nights in thinking what I've done wrong and things like that. This has never happened and I'm really hurt and confused. I've been looking forward to our meetup for such a long time and it really sucks for something like this to happen now.
What should I do?
Appreciate any comments from any of you here.
Thanks!
4lom
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