LDR boyfriend turned out to be a drunk :(

[RavenThing1]

Thank you guys for your honesty. I really do appreciate it. The visit was ok and while there were several good times, they won't be enough to outweigh the bad. I don't see this relationship lasting.

[R&R]

Thank you guys for your honesty. I really do appreciate it. The visit was ok and while there were several good times, they won't be enough to outweigh the bad. I don't see this relationship lasting.

If you don't see it lasting, why continue? You'll just be dragging out the inevitable.

[Honour]

You'll just be dragging out the inevitable.

Have to say I agree with this statement. Why emotionally invest yourself any longer than you need to?

[Mr Gravy]

What made you think RavenThing1 wants to continue the relationship?! To me her last post sounds as if she was just about ready to quit.

Either way, I'm sorry things turned out this way. It sucks to get your hopes up only to be disappointed. However, it'll only get more complicated the longer you wait so I'm glad you made your decision now rather than later.
Hugs and best wishes to you!

[R&R]

What made you think RavenThing1 wants to continue the relationship?! To me her last post sounds as if she was just about ready to quit.

Either way, I'm sorry things turned out this way. It sucks to get your hopes up only to be disappointed. However, it'll only get more complicated the longer you wait so I'm glad you made your decision now rather than later.
Hugs and best wishes to you!

Thank you guys for your honesty. I really do appreciate it. The visit was ok and while there were several good times, they won't be enough to outweigh the bad. I don't see this relationship lasting.

This part is what makes us think she wants to continue it. It wasn't an "it's over"- just that it's not going to last. To me, that came across as still being in the relationship for now.

[Moon]

You're making the right choice, RavenThink, though I'm sorry it turned out to be such a disappointment.