Should I...(surprise) visit my ex?

[hmrambling]

Acceptance is the answer.

It will be best to accept what has happened. Focus on your hobbies, your interests, your work, your school, your friends. Don't have those? Now is the time to work on all of that. Let the past be the past.

[Redheart14]

I agree with the others, don't visit.

[laurenprz]

im in the same position, we talk all the time but its been 3 weeks since our break up (our one year would've been this weekend) he's been talking about how he wants to invite me up and I told him there were multiple time I almost just drove up, his reply was that he wouldn't like that since he wouldn't be able to give me or us the attention deserved. I would say the same time to your ex and just see how he responds. lie and say you talked yourself out of surprising him today and if he seems sad that you didn't go for it for, but remember, relationships are a two way street, don't get your hopes up just because you go