I love him but I don't know )-:

[Happyangelaa]

LDR , So Me and my boyfriend are a long distance couple, we never met in person, were planning it & we been dating for 5 months, he makes me happy , and I really love him .. We talk on the phone all the time! We send letters to each other. WE both make efforts to talk to eachother , and write eachother. We were good In good terms , then we started arguing at 1st the arguments weren't bad, we always get back together But then we started arguing more and more, till this day we argue EVERYDAY! And it sucks! most of the arguments are my fault because I always get mad for no reason, I don't know why.. Or I get mad because he disrespects me, I have jealous problems, he has trust issues. We both have Anger Issues, We always go off on eachother when we're pissed at eachother. This Long distance is stressing me out, & him. Now he's moving to my city in a month, and I really do like him. we talked many times about our arguing issues, and we always say well stop, but it just seems to get worse.. I'll admit it, I ignore him, sometimes I don't wanna talk on the phone with him but that's because we ALWAYS ARGUE ! and he gets mad because I ignore him, and there's another argument. I don't know we were in good terms, but now we aren't, I know arguing is healthy but not Arguing all the time! Should I cut it off with him ?

[TheSteelAngel]

What do you mean by "you've never seen him"? Have you ever seen a picture of him? If not, then that's a huge red flag. You're five months into this relationship. You should have seen a picture of him by now.

[Happyangelaa]

No I've seen pictures of him, he's seen pictures of me.. We met thru Facebook , we skyped once but I was saying we never actually met in person like face to face.

[MissingMyDutchLove]

You've been dating for 5 months and you've only skyped once? Of course you're fighting! You guys never have met and you also never have face to face conversations.

[sasad]

How old are you guys? In college? Are you bothe settled in carreers?

[Happyangelaa]

I'm 15 & he's 16 ..

[Happyangelaa]

Well We fight like all the time.. We would FaceTime more but his phone broke so we don't do it ): we're both stubborn & we both have anger issues, it's like every time we fight we go off on each other .. & we always fight over the smallest things !

[TheSteelAngel]

Is there a reason why you guys have only Skyped once? Is his job getting in the way of it or something? Also have you guys made a plan to meet yet?

[Miasmata]

What keeps you from focusing on more positive things together? What in particular sets off your fights? You should definitely rethink your approach to communicating with him if it results in fights so often. Anger is a tough thing to tackle, but it's absolutely not impossible. Constant fighting will help neither of you.

[Happyangelaa]

No he don't work we talk all the time sometimes I get bored .. & he's moving to my city Ina month which in really exicted about ..

[Happyangelaa]

A lot of things really he gets mad when I don't reply on time , he thinks I'm " ignoring " him I mean we always talk about fixing the issue but then it's like we'll find another reason to fight !

[LivingInWonderland]

My boyfriend and I have gone through patches like this a few times. Usually they are triggered by stress. When we are both dealing with a lot of stressful issues, we fight. A lot. Over a lot of very silly reasons. The only way we ever fix it is by taking a step back and realizing that the way we treat each other in those instances is not right. Taking out our stress on each other only makes things worse. So we talk about our issues, and we try our hardest (on both ends) to fix things. When one or the other gets upset over something, we say so. "Listen, what you said really upset me. I'm not angry with you, but I don't feel it was right" for example, and then it is also the other persons job to not blow up in response. Respond calmly. TALK about things. Don't yell about them. There is always a reason why continuous fights happen. Find that reason, talk about it, and both play your part in making sure they don't continue to happen.

That is really the only advice I can give you. Communication is the key to success. Only you and your partner can stop the fights from happening.