Never thought you'd love....?

[MoonWatcher]

What are some things about your SO's looks, personality, whatever that you never imagined you would come to love or include in "The One"? Or maybe something you don't/didn't like but for some magical reason you now find endearing?

The one thing I always thought my future husband would have is a ton of gorgeous man-hair. I'm big on the long-ish, super dark mane and most of my past boyfriends had nice hair. David has a severely receding hairline and thinning up top, and he keeps it shaved so it's always short. He's also pretty young, only 23. But it's inevitable that he'll go totally bald, it's in his family.
What's funny is that he's super hairy everywhere else, like he has a full beard and serious arm and leg hair and a little chest hair (something I used to not like but now find super sexy ).

I love it though now, and can't imagine it any other way!

[Caitlin2009]

well when i was a kid lol it was pretty specific was ridicules really, i imagined him(yeah i said him, cause at the time i was still struggling with my sexuality) to have blonde hair, blue eyes, he had to like Michael Jackson lol Denise loves MJ so thats a bonus heh, but i love everything about her theres nothing i dont like

[Kirschlein]

I must say that i love the look of my SO. Already as a little girl i always dreamed of a guy who has blonde hair and beautiful blue eyes. And i need to admit, that he IS the guy of my dreams. So in that case i can't really say i never expected to be with someone like that... :>
The only thing i didn't expect was, that i will be together with someone swedish. For me, Sweden didn't exist before i met him. I was pretty interested in Finland, but somehow i ignored the rest of Scandinavia. xD

[LadyMarchHare]

I always figured I'd have some average height, pale, full-haired guy with a shaven face and an average or even slightly love handle-ridden body. I'm not sure how a six foot something muscular black man with no hair and a goatee came in to my life, but I'd rather his chocolate-looking butt over any other guy any day. I mean hey it's not every day you get one that will sit on webcam and have a bloody tea party with you and admit he went to Build-A-Bear for his 27th birthday.

[MadMolly]

LMH I love you and your man. Just sayin'

[LadyMarchHare]

LMH I love you and your man. Just sayin'

Thank you. XD He matches my crazy so well.

[Karringtyn]

I hate sports. I have soo much anger towards them as my ex always put them over me. (serious business...)

I fell in love with a former football player...haha

I never imagined being with a big muscular man...mmmm oh but I did.

Great question! xx

[Caitlin2009]

another funny thing is a few months before i started talking to Denise i told my ex "even though im bisexual, i cant imagine or see myself with another woman the rest of my life" lol few months later i met Denise online and fell in love with her, funny how things happen like that and im glad they did

[annamorgan]

Well I guess I never expected two things -
1. I never expected to find love (ACTUAL love) at the age of fifteen (that's when I met him).
2. I never expected to be proposed to at the age of sixteen.
But life is unexpected I guess

[paulawriteslove]

When I was younger I always that that "the one" would be tall, dark hair, muscular, tan, and have an amazing smile. My SO is tall, not that tan, has a great smile! But he isn't super muscular, but I love everything about him!

[Angelieke~]

Haha, such a nice question! It's fun to read all the answers and think about it myself .

Well, it's pretty funny, when I met my bf (in real life, before we started dating) I said to my friends: well, he's nice, just too bad he isn't handsome or cute. But while we kept in touch and we were camming, I started noticing that he actually is cute and handsome! And no, that's not only because I am in love now :P.

I also didn't thought I'd come to like his alternative/goth-like style of clothing. But I do! It just fits him . And I believe he should follow his own heart and style ^^

[milaya]

Well, guess there's a few things about my SO, that wasn't included in my former idea of the perfect guy... and a lot of things he lacks.
We actually agree on the fact that we're not each others' types.
Think the main things about my SO, which strays away from my preferred type/ideal guy, is that he doesn't talk much. (I talk A LOT). His age. (He's 10 years older than me - I thought my ideal guy would be maybe 4 years older) And he's too shy...

Think actually the only things about my SO that matches my ideal guy is... that he's Japanese and he is taller than me. (even though it's only 2cm)

[BluePikachu]

I never thought I would find long hair attractive on a guy but it looks very nice on him (:
Another thing was that I didn't know I could handle a "bad boy". I always expected myself to be more drawn to the "perfect" (good grades, does good things, you know, that jazz) boys, but with him it's different. They way he describes us is as Beauty and the Beast. It's quite an adventure, with twists and turns trying to handle him and his strange way of doing things. I guess we cancel each other out, and I'm kinda like his savior and he's my door into a whole new world

[pytsip]

Actually, it's just the whole package. As many of you know, I knew Belvy long before he and I were actually dating. If someone were to go back in time and tell me that the future me would be crazy in love with Belvy, I'd probably laugh at them and tell them they were crazy. Not that I didn't think he was an attractive guy or anything, but I just never saw myself dating him.

I actually remember someone making a joke with me once and saying "wouldn't it be funny if you and Belvy ended up getting married?" and I kinda shrugged it off and laughed about it because the idea at the time was completely absurd.

[noodle]

Where to start haha
I was always into the bad guys you know one of those who can get a chick in less than a sec. Those who are so freakin handsome that all the girls from your town want him lol
I've also been into skinny guys never really wanted a well lets say a lil chubbier one lol
My SO isnt one of the bad guys, hes more of the cutie every girl wants to cuddle and has as a best friend but never more lol He's also not skinny/fit, I dont wanna be mean but he is pretty chubby but I love it
And what my SO does while we cam sometimes is just burp and fart whenever he needs to let somethin out X) and normally people would find that disgustin or somethin and Im not sayin that its attractive but I dont care I just think its funny plus we're all human >_>
So basically from his looks he has nothin that wouldve made me go OMFG I WANT HIM or somethin lol I thought he was cute but thats it
But now I go crazy when I see him topless or when he gets dressed up nicely with a shirt and all that jazz
Im not sure if this makes sense but I told him in the beginnin that the fact that he isnt perfect makes him perfect for me