My boyfriend and I have a fantastic relationship and I travel to see him versus him coming to me (which I don't mind because I will be moving there anyways )
He has a job where as at the moment I'm between jobs, going to school so funding is tight.
When I go see him I pay for the hotel and flight (around $600) which takes me a couple months to save up. He pays for food, gas money and things we do while I'm there. So it hasn't bugged me too much.
There hasn't been a set date as of which I'll be moving to him but today he said he has to be out of his current place by Feb next year. It's freaking me out a little because I have yet to get a job no matter how much I'm searching for work, in my area its limited without schooling (hence why I'm going to school ) unless you work at McDonalds or Dollar store etc but I've been told because of my nursing background that I'm overqualified for those positions. The medical positions you need to have graduated.
My question is how do I bring up the financial issues? Should he be helping more with at least part of the hotel when I travel to him? How do I bring up saving money etc for an apartment?
He's been looking for a second job but I just don't feel like he's trying hard enough 😞.
He has a job where as at the moment I'm between jobs, going to school so funding is tight.
When I go see him I pay for the hotel and flight (around $600) which takes me a couple months to save up. He pays for food, gas money and things we do while I'm there. So it hasn't bugged me too much.
There hasn't been a set date as of which I'll be moving to him but today he said he has to be out of his current place by Feb next year. It's freaking me out a little because I have yet to get a job no matter how much I'm searching for work, in my area its limited without schooling (hence why I'm going to school ) unless you work at McDonalds or Dollar store etc but I've been told because of my nursing background that I'm overqualified for those positions. The medical positions you need to have graduated.
My question is how do I bring up the financial issues? Should he be helping more with at least part of the hotel when I travel to him? How do I bring up saving money etc for an apartment?
He's been looking for a second job but I just don't feel like he's trying hard enough 😞.
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