Boyfriend working away for 4 months - 1 month down, anxiety

[TheSteelAngel]

Aww I'm sorry you'll see each other soon though. Don't lose hope

[Katy_G]

Sorry to hear this. I hope your plans together will come to fruition soon

[OtantikTin]

Today marks the 4th month he's been gone, can't believe it's been 4 months since I last held him in my arms. Time has passed by fast enough, but still managed to drag on at the same time. I'm glad this whole distance thing is almost something of the past!

[OtantikTin]

He's back!
https://members.lovingfromadistance....after-4-months

[Star7]

My SO drinks to not miss me basically . I miss him a lot & feel like such a baby. He barely says anything to make me feel better if that makes sense. It's hard also as I'm the one who's moved away & still looking for a job so wayyy too much time to think. How do I do this & survive mentally? I'd like to make myself detach but don't know how. Especially since he's good to me (when we're together)😢

[Leya]

I can relate to this thread... sounds like a lot of over thinking going on.

[saerm14]

I have mixed thoughts about this... the whole thing about him not missing you after two months doesn't sit right with me. Did he actually say that to you? Regardless, that's suspicious. But maybe you're taking it out of context? Maybe he was beside himself for the first two months and then he got used to it? Hopefully that's what he meant.

You feeling sad about him having fun with his coworkers is completely normal. It's like, "hey! You're not allowed to have fun without me!" Haha it sounds ridiculous but trust me, you're not alone on that. It's one of those things where you have to swallow your pride and be glad he's not a psychotic mess that never leaves the house. It's not healthy for either of you to become a hermit just because you're long distance now. Of course you're going to wish you were there to join in on whatever good time he's having but you can't. Try to be happy for him. I know it sucks. But it's just one of those things :/

[OtantikTin]

I have mixed thoughts about this... the whole thing about him not missing you after two months doesn't sit right with me. Did he actually say that to you? Regardless, that's suspicious. But maybe you're taking it out of context? Maybe he was beside himself for the first two months and then he got used to it? Hopefully that's what he meant.

You feeling sad about him having fun with his coworkers is completely normal. It's like, "hey! You're not allowed to have fun without me!" Haha it sounds ridiculous but trust me, you're not alone on that. It's one of those things where you have to swallow your pride and be glad he's not a psychotic mess that never leaves the house. It's not healthy for either of you to become a hermit just because you're long distance now. Of course you're going to wish you were there to join in on whatever good time he's having but you can't. Try to be happy for him. I know it sucks. But it's just one of those things :/

He hasnt said that, but it has happened in the past when we had a bad phase. Anyway he's back since mid october and everything is back to normal. The four months away have been hard though.