Hiya all I haven't posted for a long time as my degree at uni has been very demanding. I had this weekend off to spend with my fiance' who came down for the weekend, had such a wonderful time, but of course it went all to quickly and now I'm left feeling lonely and empty. Unlike previous times I'm also battling with a feeling of jealousy.
My fiance' has recently started a new course at university and has made some new friends, in particular there is a girl. Now before I go on I'll make it clear that I trust my fiance' and know he'd never do anything to betray that trust. I've also spoken to him about this and he understands how I feel, and has told me he experiences something similar with some of my friends. And this particular girl isn't single and is actually going out with one of the guys in the social circle. The reason I'm jealous is because she gets to spend more time with my fiance' and gets to be there for him more than I do. They message quite a bit over facebook. This I'm really struggling with, on top of this my degree is often really demanding and I've had rough few weeks with the start of semester and it's made me miss him and need his comfort all the more. Sometimes I feel like I can't get through these times without him
This is an obvious downside to LDR and it's made even harder because to me even though we aren't married, he's like a husband to me. Being away from him is like living without part of myself, and it just seems to get harder after every visit.
I'd just like some advice on how to deal with the jealousy, I don't want to be a clingy, insecure fiance'e and every time her name comes up in conversation (which isn't much) want to let out an animal growl lol.
Cheers
My fiance' has recently started a new course at university and has made some new friends, in particular there is a girl. Now before I go on I'll make it clear that I trust my fiance' and know he'd never do anything to betray that trust. I've also spoken to him about this and he understands how I feel, and has told me he experiences something similar with some of my friends. And this particular girl isn't single and is actually going out with one of the guys in the social circle. The reason I'm jealous is because she gets to spend more time with my fiance' and gets to be there for him more than I do. They message quite a bit over facebook. This I'm really struggling with, on top of this my degree is often really demanding and I've had rough few weeks with the start of semester and it's made me miss him and need his comfort all the more. Sometimes I feel like I can't get through these times without him
This is an obvious downside to LDR and it's made even harder because to me even though we aren't married, he's like a husband to me. Being away from him is like living without part of myself, and it just seems to get harder after every visit.
I'd just like some advice on how to deal with the jealousy, I don't want to be a clingy, insecure fiance'e and every time her name comes up in conversation (which isn't much) want to let out an animal growl lol.
Cheers
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