Originally posted by C.C.
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There's nothing particularly wrong with your post Chris, but it is out of place.
There's not even indirect similarity between two people, one of which might potentially scare the other, meeting each other and between two people with romantic past meeting up, especially when the OP is scared of something sexual happening in between them!
Taking out important parts which define the nature of an event and its possible influence and saying it that way is not correct.
There's nothing wrong in posting about a similar situation which the OP can relate to, but they wouldn't feel anything close to this if there were no possible fears of cheating. And you didn't even fear the meeting itself but your ex-fiance being scared.
And no matter what her problems were, it honestly weirds me out when you talk like that about your ex-wife. She might have been a terrible partner, but it it ok to go and judge her based on her developmental problems?
There's not even indirect similarity between two people, one of which might potentially scare the other, meeting each other and between two people with romantic past meeting up, especially when the OP is scared of something sexual happening in between them!
Taking out important parts which define the nature of an event and its possible influence and saying it that way is not correct.
There's nothing wrong in posting about a similar situation which the OP can relate to, but they wouldn't feel anything close to this if there were no possible fears of cheating. And you didn't even fear the meeting itself but your ex-fiance being scared.
And no matter what her problems were, it honestly weirds me out when you talk like that about your ex-wife. She might have been a terrible partner, but it it ok to go and judge her based on her developmental problems?
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