IMHO: no one-night stand or sex with person you don't love will ever be as good as with your loving SO 
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Have to disagree, I've had some of the best sex with people I didn't love.Originally posted by SailorRei View PostIMHO: no one-night stand or sex with person you don't love will ever be as good as with your loving SOOur separation of each other is an optical illusion of consciousness. ~Albert EinsteinComment
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I'm definitely in the camp of having only one sexual partner, though I recognize some of that comes from the fact that in my family, the only people I know of who have had multiple partners were people who divorced and remarried. It's my opinion that sex should bring two emotionally attached people together. One night stands or having sex with anyone I'm not really invested in for the long haul doesn't appeal to me. Most of all, I want my partner to love me for who I am as a person. If my partner really loves and respects me, he'll be fine with waiting for sex. Maybe I'm naive and romanticising, but it's just my opinion.
However, I definitely think partners should be open to discussions about sex in a respectful and mature way. I'm fairly open over not wanting sex anytime soon, and that's saved me a lot of trouble of getting into relationships with guys who want more physical intimacy. On the other hand, I'd also be really hurt if my partner thought I was cheating or had any desire to cheat. Even though there might be some curiosity as to what sex with other people is like, it's nothing I would act out. I'm also curious as to how to pilot an airplane, but I'm not going out to get a license.
For me, I want a fulfilling sexless relationship. Visiting museums, chatting for hours about nerdy subjects, or cuddling while watching Netflix is my idea of a good time. Nothing wrong with only having one sexual partner or not engaging in sex very often.Comment
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I think that's all individual. Some people can, some can't.Originally posted by Moon View PostComment
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