Long story short he dumped me through text message this morning while I was at work. I am both really hurt and really relieved at the same time. I knew that we just weren't working for such a long time now, but i wanted to see if he had the balls to tell me, and he did. Thank god! I sacrificed so much of my time for him I feel like I ended up giving up on myself and my future just for him. Now I can finally get back what I lost and hopefully I will find someone way better along the way. I have always known this guy was bad news for me, but i still had hope in our love so please no "I told you so comments". I cried a bit today but only because I have such amazing friends and coworkers who got my back. I'm gonna treat myself for now on. Peace out lol
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I'm sorry that you are hurting but I am so proud of you for how strong you are being. Sometimes you know you're done but you just don't want to be the one to do it - I understand that. Pamper yourself and enjoy your time being on your own. You've got this.
I hope you stick around!To those who dream, nothing is ever far away.
Distance is to love as wind is to fire. It blows out the little ones and fans the big ones.
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I'm sorry to hear that it didn't work out. I'm sure it's hard to have that happen, after all of the time and effort you put towards the relationship. But relief is good. At least you know it was the right thing and that you did what you could. I hope things get better for you from here on out.~~~ ~~~
First Met Online: March 13, 2014
Relationship Began: November 23, 2014
First Met In Person: June 10-24, 2015
Second Visit: December 16- January 6, 2015/2016
Closed The Distance: June 26, 2016
Got Engaged: February 1, 2018
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SteelAngel, I am actually really really sad for you. I am proud of how well you handle this and I hope things get much better within a short period of time because you do deserve to be happy.
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Originally posted by TheSteelAngel View PostI sacrificed so much of my time for him I feel like I ended up giving up on myself and my future just for him.
I autopsied the relationship and worked on myself so that I could and would be a whole person again, and learned how to remain a whole person in relationships. Best of luck!
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Originally posted by snow View PostSteelAngel, I am actually really really sad for you. I am proud of how well you handle this and I hope things get much better within a short period of time because you do deserve to be happy.
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Hey, i am really very sorry to hear that nothing worked out, I would be very glad if you could share more about the situation you were in (if it wont cause anymore pain to you), i really feel like i am in similar situation myself now I really try so hard to make relationship work, but it does not seem like this effort is coming from both sides, I know she loves me (maybe not as much as i do) but she is always busy with all the other stuff and never really has time for me Every single time i try to point this out she just gets mad at me for not understanding her situation (maybe I am wrong, i dont know anymore, thats why I came here to ask for some help )
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