Me again, just extremely frustrated. So I am visiting the guy I'm dating very soon, but I am really starting to question if all this effort is worth it. I really care for him, but the feeling of me being more into him is something that won't go away. I would hardly go a day w/out texting someone I care about, especially long distance. I know he has great plans for me when I get there and everything. My concern is that he will only show interest when we are together, which at this point is once every 1 or 2 months and I don't want to settle for that. I feel really bad about this, but yesterday I got hit on by another guy, it felt pretty good, especially since my guy was barely paying attention to me, I shut it down though right away and didn't let him buy me a drink and I barely spoke to him.
If am content and feel loved, other guys hitting doesn't affect me at all, whenever a guy would start talking to me I would mention something about my bf (ex now) right away. The guy talks about how lucky he is to have a girl like me, in my mind I am screaming "then act like it", as in send me a quick text (literally takes seconds), especially if you have time to post on facebook. Idk what to do, I already told him once that I didn't like going w/out communication and I am very tempted to tell him how distant I feel from him when he doesn't text. He has been like this from the beginning, but for the most part he would still text me good morning or night if I didn't 1st. Its not money or time I'm super concerned about, its my emotion and love that I don't want to sink into this guy and get heartbroken. I am willing to put myself out there again for the right guy. Am I nitpicking or should I be concerned? Btw I want the commitment, but I don't want to settle.
If am content and feel loved, other guys hitting doesn't affect me at all, whenever a guy would start talking to me I would mention something about my bf (ex now) right away. The guy talks about how lucky he is to have a girl like me, in my mind I am screaming "then act like it", as in send me a quick text (literally takes seconds), especially if you have time to post on facebook. Idk what to do, I already told him once that I didn't like going w/out communication and I am very tempted to tell him how distant I feel from him when he doesn't text. He has been like this from the beginning, but for the most part he would still text me good morning or night if I didn't 1st. Its not money or time I'm super concerned about, its my emotion and love that I don't want to sink into this guy and get heartbroken. I am willing to put myself out there again for the right guy. Am I nitpicking or should I be concerned? Btw I want the commitment, but I don't want to settle.
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