Please help me.. im super stress.. my husband need to work abroad for our soon to be little son for about 4 years in korea. I cant help myself how to smile,how to sleep or eat without him. Feels like i wanna pull him back here. I dont want to go outside even to talk with others.. haaaays..
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Can you try something like LDR ideas?Originally posted by Maricar View Post
First Visit: September 2016
Second Visit: January 2017 (Her birthday)
Third Visit: June 2018 (medical conference near her home)
John 3:16For God so loved the world. That he gave his only begotten son. For whosoever believeth in him. Shall not perish but have eternal lifeJohn 4:12I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. -
You are going to miss him but it's important to keep your life going while he is gone. He is abroad at work to provide for his family. You job is to be strong at home and focus on your son. Your child may only be 4 but they do pick up on our feelings and emotions.Originally posted by Maricar View Post
Stay in communication with your spouse but also make sure that missing him is not your only focus. You have a young child that needs your love, attention and caring. I know it probably gets harder when he goes to bed and it's quiet. Take this time to do things for you. Maybe take online classes. Read books or watch the movies or shows you haven't had a chance to yet. Learn to make something that you couldn't' before. Take this opportunity to do some things for you. It will also give you more things to discuss with your spouse when he calls or you Skype. You have a life as an individual. You are not only a spouse and a mother. It seems like you have forgotten this. Time to get yourself back on track.To those who dream, nothing is ever far away.
Distance is to love as wind is to fire. It blows out the little ones and fans the big ones.
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R&R has good ideas....
I know the feeling. We are married for two years. I last held him 10 months ago. He misses me too.
We are separate people and no ones life stops when their spouse is far away. You have a young son who needs you. Spend time doing family things. Can you plan a day trip with your child? Does he like the park or library? What adventure can you plan to enjoy with him and then share pictures with your husband. Focus on small things to distract yourself. The time will go by faster as you remember to do things that you enjoy.
*hugs* You can do this!Comment
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