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Me and my bf have been going out for some time now and he said he was gonna visit me but he doesn't know when and he hasn't video chatted me. His phone isn't on. He has sent pics of him so he is YouTube famous so all I got are like model pics so of them look live though. Right now Im just bored I mean I do wanna be with him and I love him but its like are relationship isn't exciting like it use to be. I jus don't know what to do. Can you give me some ideas of what to do?
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You definitely need to make sure he is who he says he is before you try and meet up with him. Anyone can say they are a famous youtube personality and provide you with professional pictures of said personality. What reasons has he given not to video chat you? It's strange that someone who is famous on a VIDEO site would not want to video chat with his girlfriend...So, here you are
too foreign for home
too foreign for here.
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He has given me his passwords and usernames to everything, He has given me pics but when I looked them up on tiny eye and they come up as no images found but he has sent me that pic before. He says he is who he says even when me and my mom has threatened him. he has tried to video chat me on sc before but when he did I had to keep calling cause his phone wouldn't let him answer it wouldn't hear me calling. He doesn't want to delete any of his games. He also just told me that he doesn't record any of this or post it. His sister does this.Originally posted by Ejoriah View PostComment
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This sounds really questionable. But you never know. I mean, it's trust to give your passwords out, but at the same time they could also be sham accounts. Also, the lack of effort in communication is difficult especially when you don't get decent explanations. Thirdly, (not that all LDRs are the same), but my SO and I make some serious effort to make sure we are next-level communicators. When that's all you have, it's critically essential.Originally posted by lilshawty123 View Post
Sorry for the difficulty you are experiencing
It will work itself out one way or the other, and if he is important to you try to keep an open mind about what is going on. If he's unwilling to communicate, then it'll be extra hard.Comment
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I know about a lot of the famous you tubers for your age, and they all have gf's. For him not to skype is silly. He has the equipment to do that.Originally posted by lilshawty123 View Post
You haven't met or seen him in rl. Please protect yourself as, I hate to say it, but you are getting scammed...Comment
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What are some good questions to ask himComment
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I 100% agree with this.Originally posted by sasad View Post
If you really still belive it's him - then tell him it's important to you that you video Skype right away. There is no way he doesn't have it on his phone or his laptop. If he can't video chat you in real time.......that's all you need to know.To those who dream, nothing is ever far away.
Distance is to love as wind is to fire. It blows out the little ones and fans the big ones.
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I told him but I don't know what else to tell him.Comment
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Nothing, if he constantly refuses to do a video call, break it off.Originally posted by lilshawty123 View PostComment
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I'm going to second the general consensus--video chat or break up. No YouTuber would not have a smartphone without video chatting capabilites, or at least not be able to borrow one from a friend. If he can't show you his face, he's hiding something, and if he's hiding something already, your relationship is probably not off to a good start. Best of luck to you in this situation
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alright but he tells me that he doesn't wanna break up with me and that he loves me but idkLast edited by lilshawty123; January 2, 2017, 01:49 PM.Comment
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This is something you need to learn now while you are young, as it will serve you all your life. Words mean nothing when actions don't back them up. He can say that until he's blue in the face, but it doesn't mean anything if he can't even show you who he really is.Originally posted by lilshawty123 View PostTo those who dream, nothing is ever far away.
Distance is to love as wind is to fire. It blows out the little ones and fans the big ones.
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alright thanks. He just told me that he doesn't have a labtop anymore and he doesn't have it on his phoneLast edited by lilshawty123; January 2, 2017, 02:01 PM.Comment
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As been told before, he can borrow it from someone, family member, a friend, both a phone and a laptop.Originally posted by lilshawty123 View Post
Heck I hate using my laptop (got it for uni) and usually use my PC that hasn't got a webcam. I went and bought a good quality one just for convenience, nothing in the world will make me believe that someone who claims to be a famous youtuber can't do it.Last edited by C.C.; January 2, 2017, 02:30 PM.Comment
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Break up with him. Hell, even give him a time limit for the video call if you are feeling generous. "You've got a week. If you can't back it up, we're done."Originally posted by lilshawty123 View PostComment
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