Hey my name is clayton, i been on this site for a week and a half just looking around and listening to everybody life experience on ldr with their SO, and i recently kinda got into a ldr and i need advice, so yea im from new york city and i just turned 25 and my SO is 26 from China and its crazy how we met lol i was on a dating website because im usually to shy to talk to girls in person atleast approaching anyway so i use a dating site, and while i was searching for girls which is usually Asian women in my area i ended up finding my SO profile i though she was very pretty and i told myself she is from china just move on but i find myself writing hii to her and the next day she replied to me and her english spelling was good so we started chatting back and fourth and things kinda took off from their, we now use a mobile app called Wechat to talk to each other or video chat, to tell the truth i never though i would meet someone like her she is so sweet and beautiful, and me and her are at the point were we want to see each other but here's the deal, she is single with two kids one child 7 years old and the other 6 months old, she dont make enough money to travel, so its up to me to visit her and im currently looking for a job so i can save up to see her and mind you i never been in a ldr before and i never traveled before and i dont think she ever been through this either we both kinda hoping we can create a future together, i been alone for 7 years and finally a opportunity is here but i wonder are we both just wishing for a future that might not happen, now i know if both people want it bad enough it could happen but it felt strange hearing her say that she would wait for me :/ its like oh my god someone actually saying this to me for the first time and i kinda feel pressure and joy at the same time, i really wanna visit her and not let her down but this is a journey i never been on gonna be very interesting, how can this work out for us and when will we be able to close the distance? i know thats for the future but first i gotta start visiting her which is not cheap ofcourse, im willing to save up but for us to have a potential future it will take hard work and a strong belief. Sorry for writing so much, i look forward to everybodys advice

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