Hello, l'm in bit of a pickle. I have been with my SO for a little over nine months. My family knows about my SO but haven't met them but my mother has talked to them a little bit. My knows most about my SO then the rest of my family. My SO is transgender mtf and can't work because of mental disorders. She has depression, anxiety and ocd (thoughts ). The rest of my family doesn't know that she's a transgrender, she still is pre op. The only people that know is transgender is me, her mom and mine mom. She lives in the bible belt part of the usa. And I am pansexual
We have been in engage for almost a month. But we haven't told anybody yet but her mom bit have a bit of idea. I know my SO is going to told her mom went she gets her ring. I just don't know how to tell my family without them freaking out. That we got engage so soon. They did have a little bit of an issue of me traveling by myself to visit my SO for the first time. We have only met once In person and that's when we got in engaged.
Also the plan is for me to move down there to my SO. Hopefully before winter of this year. Also my mom has some an of me moving but not when. Also the rest of my family doesn't know about me moving.
Just don't know how to don't them about every thing about everything and them freakingout.
My mom did think the relationship was a bit of unhealthyat the beginning because of all my SO mental disorders and I ca be emotional and keep my emotions bottled up till I cry.
I am over the moon to be engaged to my SO and love her every much.
How anybody been in this situation or maybe any advice of a noob? Thanks.
We have been in engage for almost a month. But we haven't told anybody yet but her mom bit have a bit of idea. I know my SO is going to told her mom went she gets her ring. I just don't know how to tell my family without them freaking out. That we got engage so soon. They did have a little bit of an issue of me traveling by myself to visit my SO for the first time. We have only met once In person and that's when we got in engaged.
Also the plan is for me to move down there to my SO. Hopefully before winter of this year. Also my mom has some an of me moving but not when. Also the rest of my family doesn't know about me moving.
Just don't know how to don't them about every thing about everything and them freakingout.
My mom did think the relationship was a bit of unhealthyat the beginning because of all my SO mental disorders and I ca be emotional and keep my emotions bottled up till I cry.
I am over the moon to be engaged to my SO and love her every much.
How anybody been in this situation or maybe any advice of a noob? Thanks.
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