Hey everyone I'm new here but wanted to get opinions on something. I live in Louisiana for a job contract (2yrs with 1 left) and my gf lives in Los Angeles. We usually spend Thanksgiving and Christmas with her family and try to do a few weekends when I go out to LA.
This year she has been taking several international trips with her co-workers and I find it odd that she is so quick to take these girls trips half way around the world (Costa Rica, UK, Fiji and Spain) but hasn't really put much effort into when. Is our next meet up. 3 months ago we met in New York but she had to go there for a conference and I went out of my way to be there.
For my processing I get that she want to travel but doing multiple trips then saying "I really miss you and can't wait to see you" feels very confusing to me.
So my question is am I tripping over nothing or are my concerns legitimate?
This year she has been taking several international trips with her co-workers and I find it odd that she is so quick to take these girls trips half way around the world (Costa Rica, UK, Fiji and Spain) but hasn't really put much effort into when. Is our next meet up. 3 months ago we met in New York but she had to go there for a conference and I went out of my way to be there.
For my processing I get that she want to travel but doing multiple trips then saying "I really miss you and can't wait to see you" feels very confusing to me.
So my question is am I tripping over nothing or are my concerns legitimate?
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