So I have just returned from a weekend visit with my SO, it went amazing as always!
My SO is a med student and is basically living off of student aid until he completes his studies. He will not receive an actual income for another 1 1/2 years when he starts his residency. There have been very brief talks of him applying at a hospital that is only an hour away from where I live (also happens to be the 3rd ranked hospital in the nation for his specialty)
While I was there, he mentioned again that he will have an income in a year and 1/2.. he went into detail about his courses, exams, and time frames for the next few years. In the back of my mind I wanted him to so badly talk about moving in together- but he didn't. This has been on my mind since I returned home; I would love to talk to him about this but there are so many things that are currently holding us back from having a for sure future.
I want him to be the one to bring this up (for certain reasons) but I cant stop thinking about this, I have even practiced in my head what I would say to him and what needed to be discussed if he ever asks me lol! Maybe its just a normal thing in an LDR, everyone wants to close the distance right? I guess I'm not really needing any advice, just needed to vent a little.
My SO is a med student and is basically living off of student aid until he completes his studies. He will not receive an actual income for another 1 1/2 years when he starts his residency. There have been very brief talks of him applying at a hospital that is only an hour away from where I live (also happens to be the 3rd ranked hospital in the nation for his specialty)
While I was there, he mentioned again that he will have an income in a year and 1/2.. he went into detail about his courses, exams, and time frames for the next few years. In the back of my mind I wanted him to so badly talk about moving in together- but he didn't. This has been on my mind since I returned home; I would love to talk to him about this but there are so many things that are currently holding us back from having a for sure future.
I want him to be the one to bring this up (for certain reasons) but I cant stop thinking about this, I have even practiced in my head what I would say to him and what needed to be discussed if he ever asks me lol! Maybe its just a normal thing in an LDR, everyone wants to close the distance right? I guess I'm not really needing any advice, just needed to vent a little.
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