I'm 22 and sometimes I find myself a bit overwhelmed by the situation I find myself in. We've known each other almost 3 years now but this is my first serious relationship. The thing with Tanja is that she has everything I, or anyone I guess, could want in a girl that I'd want to settle down with, I mean both practically and as a person. I actually find that a bit scary at times in a strange sort of way.
Sometimes I think how fast this has all happened. I'm only 22, and I'm looking at moving countries, to one where I can't speak the language in fact
I don't doubt for a second that I want to be with Tanja, I've never been so certain of anything. I feel like she's super special and she's all mine and God damnit it's staying that way
But as I have LOTS of time to think about things while she's at work, I wonder lots of things. I'm a thinker anyway, I think about things ALL the time, just constantly tbh. Tanja read somewhere that people like me who like to analyze and think about everything end up being more stressed so that might be why I feel hopeless sometimes
Do you think you're too young to close the distance? Would you rather wait until you're a certain age? Or achieved something in particular first like getting a degree for example?
Or do you think it's too soon to start thinking about closing the distance even though your SO disagrees because you haven't been together very long?
Sometimes I think how fast this has all happened. I'm only 22, and I'm looking at moving countries, to one where I can't speak the language in fact
I don't doubt for a second that I want to be with Tanja, I've never been so certain of anything. I feel like she's super special and she's all mine and God damnit it's staying that way
But as I have LOTS of time to think about things while she's at work, I wonder lots of things. I'm a thinker anyway, I think about things ALL the time, just constantly tbh. Tanja read somewhere that people like me who like to analyze and think about everything end up being more stressed so that might be why I feel hopeless sometimes
Do you think you're too young to close the distance? Would you rather wait until you're a certain age? Or achieved something in particular first like getting a degree for example?
Or do you think it's too soon to start thinking about closing the distance even though your SO disagrees because you haven't been together very long?
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