Hey guys, I need your help, last year in 2019 I met a guy on Instagram in comments somewhere. We started talking, we introduced ourselves. Actually he is studying in the USA, raised in Sweden but we share the same nationality even though we were raised in different countries. He was so happy to meet me, we kept the connection between us. Sometimes when we spent days without talking, he said he missed me and of course I missed him too. This time came when we had to use whatsapp so we exchanged our contacts . He wasn't talking that much and when I asked him why he is ignorant , quiet somtimes, he said that he is not that kind of guy who talks that much and he confirmed to me that his personality is introvert, that is when I understood him well.
As we continued talking as days go by, I felt attracted to him, and one day I told him that I have feelings for him.He said he is not ready for a relationship, and I said it's okay. One day he also told me that he is going to leave whatsapp for a while and I said may be I should tell him how I feel.
I told him that I love him,not only that, I asked him what if I want to wait for you,and if so, what if I wait for you and never feel the same way about me.
That's when he said he loved me but he wasn't sure of how I feel about him. That is how we found ourselves in a long distance relationship.
Now the problem is, I don't really know what to say, like I can text me " hello love,how are you? "And his answer would just be " hi, am good" just like that. I am always the one to start a conversation, and even so, he only respond with like 3 words only.
At some point, I ask myself if he really loves me or if he said that to make me feel good.
Sometimes I ask myself what should I bring in a conversation or what to not bring in.
Please,if you have been in a long distance relationship with an introvert. I want your help,because I love him and I don't care how millions miles away he is. I just loved him even before seeing his pictures! Help me dear friends.
As we continued talking as days go by, I felt attracted to him, and one day I told him that I have feelings for him.He said he is not ready for a relationship, and I said it's okay. One day he also told me that he is going to leave whatsapp for a while and I said may be I should tell him how I feel.
I told him that I love him,not only that, I asked him what if I want to wait for you,and if so, what if I wait for you and never feel the same way about me.
That's when he said he loved me but he wasn't sure of how I feel about him. That is how we found ourselves in a long distance relationship.
Now the problem is, I don't really know what to say, like I can text me " hello love,how are you? "And his answer would just be " hi, am good" just like that. I am always the one to start a conversation, and even so, he only respond with like 3 words only.
At some point, I ask myself if he really loves me or if he said that to make me feel good.
Sometimes I ask myself what should I bring in a conversation or what to not bring in.
Please,if you have been in a long distance relationship with an introvert. I want your help,because I love him and I don't care how millions miles away he is. I just loved him even before seeing his pictures! Help me dear friends.
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