Hey everyone, I've been feeling pretty thoughtful this past week. My SO just finished his 6 month contract last week and, if everything was normal, we had planned for him to fly out to see me again. Obviously, that can't happen now.
I worry that we have missed this window, and he will have to start a new contract, and I just have no idea when we will see each other again. Usually I feel ok but knowing that he would be flying to see me right now is making me sad. I really miss having his arms around me and being able to laugh together. it's been almost 7 months since we last saw each other.
The good news is is that we are not feeling distant from each other. In fact, we have come a long way and feel closer than we ever have before. I don't think I truly understood the blueprint for commitment until I met him. He has taught me so much about everything, including myself, and he has shown me what it can feel like to be sensitive and vulnerable with someone who loves you. It's really amazing.
Please tell me how you guys are going. How do you manage to stay close during these times?
Hugs to everyone, and thanks for being here with me!
I worry that we have missed this window, and he will have to start a new contract, and I just have no idea when we will see each other again. Usually I feel ok but knowing that he would be flying to see me right now is making me sad. I really miss having his arms around me and being able to laugh together. it's been almost 7 months since we last saw each other.
The good news is is that we are not feeling distant from each other. In fact, we have come a long way and feel closer than we ever have before. I don't think I truly understood the blueprint for commitment until I met him. He has taught me so much about everything, including myself, and he has shown me what it can feel like to be sensitive and vulnerable with someone who loves you. It's really amazing.
Please tell me how you guys are going. How do you manage to stay close during these times?
Hugs to everyone, and thanks for being here with me!
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