Hi,
I am chating with this guy a gaming friend for a very long time. We were normal friends until i turned 22, him 30. The convo started getting innocent flirty, and we would confide to eachother about life. We are getting intimate but is not sure where it’ll take us. What are your advices on LDR ?What are your successful stories about gaming friend to lover ? I know this isn’t common, but if any- please share.
Also- how do you know if a guy is serious online?
Is sexual flirtations normal ?
Is sexting normal ?
Is it a red flag if he is with his gf, but has always thought of me ?? I never really flirted boldly. He has but i tread lightly. He knows how i feel.
I adore him as a friend, always has. I do- admit, i do get charmed.
But here is him:
He feels troubled with his gf and is always on and off since. I am aware as a friend. He thinks of me often and pays a lot of attention to me for a long time even before him getting to know that girl.
Now i know- he has always thought of me and i have been his ideal girl, sexually too. For a very long time since his confession. Maybe even earlier, we would never know. He always expresses his affection to me. In a friendly manner for a very long time.
its been too intimate now, i dont know how to feel. If this is serious or, just to pass time because he loves my convos, company online, my appearance ??
How does one usually feel in this circumstances if any ?
I knew he has the hots for me for a longg time, but we never take it far because i draw a line. He didnt mind but would always want to talk to me. I enjoy his company since i knew him for so long-online.
How do you know when it is okay to start seeing eachother??? - when he is single of course.
But what signs do you start to want to give a LDR a try ???? Like, when you turn heads over heels ? I do want to visit- but i do not know about how he feels to visit me. He seems hesitant. Is this a red flag, that it is strictly virtual - that i am a mere sexual fantasy to him hence his treatment to me ??
Edit: thats cool, but all gamers are creeps then. Because we were just gaming friends. And its normal to be gaming friends with people of different ages. It still is, but no flirts. Many guys online or offline are much more “creepy” than he is. As I said, everything was not creepy flirty until i was 22, the convo went for a different direction.
I think childhood friends with age gaps does get like this. But yes - im not comfortabls with his advances while he is taken - thank you.
No- i never send him nudes or flirty pics of myself. It is all one-way. But, Emotional affair- i’ll keep that in mind thanks
Edit 2: Be honest - to some of you, youve flirted to a few people while single at the same time. Those who youve actually met - this is considered normal. Please dont make it so unusual because it is strictly online as of yet. But this point- cheating is cheating i will definitely take note of that. I never chatted online nor participated in physically chatting with a guy taken before.
How those conversations flow with those who has participated in online dating ? I believe those stories are far more juicy than mine, in terms of flirtatious advances, strictly online and never met. I am quite curious. I read enough on here but no real honesty behind the scenes.
If you ignore the age gap of when we began to know eachother, you wouldnt consider it creepy. And i dnt like the term “consensual adults”. Because deep down age doesnt matter. An 18 is still quite young yet- they are wild and crazy. When that happens, they get hurt. Or a mature age of 23- they get hurt. That is life- but why not teach them and not throw in that word “consensual adult”. I just like to throw in this opinion- so youd help stop anybody young, or old and remind people of red flags no matter the age and not use that term as an argument to ignore potential dangers. A 54yo can still come to dangers - scammers, and sexual exploitations. All age should be considered. Thank you for your advice though. I never realised how weird my story sounded until you guys.
I am chating with this guy a gaming friend for a very long time. We were normal friends until i turned 22, him 30. The convo started getting innocent flirty, and we would confide to eachother about life. We are getting intimate but is not sure where it’ll take us. What are your advices on LDR ?What are your successful stories about gaming friend to lover ? I know this isn’t common, but if any- please share.
Also- how do you know if a guy is serious online?
Is sexual flirtations normal ?
Is sexting normal ?
Is it a red flag if he is with his gf, but has always thought of me ?? I never really flirted boldly. He has but i tread lightly. He knows how i feel.
I adore him as a friend, always has. I do- admit, i do get charmed.
But here is him:
He feels troubled with his gf and is always on and off since. I am aware as a friend. He thinks of me often and pays a lot of attention to me for a long time even before him getting to know that girl.
Now i know- he has always thought of me and i have been his ideal girl, sexually too. For a very long time since his confession. Maybe even earlier, we would never know. He always expresses his affection to me. In a friendly manner for a very long time.
its been too intimate now, i dont know how to feel. If this is serious or, just to pass time because he loves my convos, company online, my appearance ??
How does one usually feel in this circumstances if any ?
I knew he has the hots for me for a longg time, but we never take it far because i draw a line. He didnt mind but would always want to talk to me. I enjoy his company since i knew him for so long-online.
How do you know when it is okay to start seeing eachother??? - when he is single of course.
But what signs do you start to want to give a LDR a try ???? Like, when you turn heads over heels ? I do want to visit- but i do not know about how he feels to visit me. He seems hesitant. Is this a red flag, that it is strictly virtual - that i am a mere sexual fantasy to him hence his treatment to me ??
Edit: thats cool, but all gamers are creeps then. Because we were just gaming friends. And its normal to be gaming friends with people of different ages. It still is, but no flirts. Many guys online or offline are much more “creepy” than he is. As I said, everything was not creepy flirty until i was 22, the convo went for a different direction.
I think childhood friends with age gaps does get like this. But yes - im not comfortabls with his advances while he is taken - thank you.
No- i never send him nudes or flirty pics of myself. It is all one-way. But, Emotional affair- i’ll keep that in mind thanks
Edit 2: Be honest - to some of you, youve flirted to a few people while single at the same time. Those who youve actually met - this is considered normal. Please dont make it so unusual because it is strictly online as of yet. But this point- cheating is cheating i will definitely take note of that. I never chatted online nor participated in physically chatting with a guy taken before.
How those conversations flow with those who has participated in online dating ? I believe those stories are far more juicy than mine, in terms of flirtatious advances, strictly online and never met. I am quite curious. I read enough on here but no real honesty behind the scenes.
If you ignore the age gap of when we began to know eachother, you wouldnt consider it creepy. And i dnt like the term “consensual adults”. Because deep down age doesnt matter. An 18 is still quite young yet- they are wild and crazy. When that happens, they get hurt. Or a mature age of 23- they get hurt. That is life- but why not teach them and not throw in that word “consensual adult”. I just like to throw in this opinion- so youd help stop anybody young, or old and remind people of red flags no matter the age and not use that term as an argument to ignore potential dangers. A 54yo can still come to dangers - scammers, and sexual exploitations. All age should be considered. Thank you for your advice though. I never realised how weird my story sounded until you guys.
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