Would you do it again?

[Karringtyn]

I know this is it.. But ya never know what will happen in life...I would be in a LDR again...if it was the person I was meant to be with...ya do what you can when you love.

[MoonWatcher]

Before I even got into my relationship, I was fully aware that it might be 2 years or even longer before he would be home for a long period of time. We've also discussed if our time apart was extended what we would do. And the answer to both of those: I would wait for him as long as it took. He's worth it.

As far as a different LDR... if (God forbid) our relationship ended, the next guy would pretty much have to be Jesus Christ before I would even consider it. Not because of the distance, but because the effort and commitment put into it would require a ton of trust, and that's true for a CDR as well. Which at that point I probably would not have.

[nicole]

Only for Adam, I could never do this for someone else. I know there will be times when both of us will have to travel, but hopefully, that will only be for like 1/2 weeks at a time. After the distance is closed I am not letting the boy out of my sight, this has been so stressful!

[Caitlin2009]

if i had to do it over again with her then yes, with anybody else NOOOOOOOOO!!!! waaaay too stressful and heartbreaking, the only person i would ever do it again for would be Denise and were very close to closing the distance

[Darth_Taco]

Just like with Enrique, better be someone special and spectacular in bed, dammit! D:<

[Andy]

Yeah I think I could, depending on their location though I guess... I don't think I could do the ones where you're the other side of the world to your SO. I have so much admiration for those couples on here.

[sam]

No. I could never love anyone like I love Elina.. and I think you need love this strong to succeed in this

[mynameiseric]

Im going to spend the rest of my life with Amanda....but if some catastrophic event happend and hell froze over n we broke up, there would be no chance in hell I would, this is wayyyy too hard. But ill never love anyone ever again so im not worried about it

[paulawriteslove]

If the situation was different, like we met in person and stuff, then maybe I would consider. But I don't even want to think of this relationship ending

[MissShortie]

This isn't my first LDR... my first LDR became one because I moved away, and I didn't see myself getting in another LDR but then again I wasn't looking for a relationship at all, and when I started talking to Clay I never even thought about the distance.

IF Clay and I were to break up I would not want to have another LDR... BUT there's no way of knowing what would happen in the future if Clay and I were to break up, so I am not going to say "I'll never do it again" because I don't know

I love Clay and I'm so happy even if we are in different states <3

[XX, Lexi]

I would, but it would have to be someone I considered 'worth it.' The long distance is really hard on me and Luke as is and I don't know if I could really do with anyone else. If we broke up AGAIN (Knock on wood) and I found someone miles away that I really like, I'd have to consider whether I would want to or not.

[Zephii]

Yes, if I had to start over, I wouldn't mind if it was an LDR. I'd almost find that preferable! Though, if I had to do it again, I'd try and avoid internationalness.

Going into an LDR again with Obi? Ugh. No. I'll do everything I can to avoid that. I've done my time damnit!

[Talent_2]

I suppose cant say never again, as i dont know what the future holds. But if for some extremely unfortunate reason i lost my SO, i think i probably wouldnt do it again, the heartache i suffer everytime i leave him is just too unbearable and if i didnt love my SO as much as i do, i probably wouldnt put up with it now, I just love him too much to ever lose him completely so if that means staying in an LDR indefinitely (heaven forbid!!!) i would. But right now id have to say i wouldnt do it again!

Too much bloody hassle lol

[MeeshaLenee]

I'm with the people who say, whatever it takes for love. If it was someone I truly loved, truly cared about and thought I would end up with, I wouldn't hesitate to take a LDR, if that's the best I could get at the time.

And one thing that I like about LDRs, it helps distinguish between the casual and the serious. You can tell if someone isn't as committed to you as you are to them; it'll show in how much effort they're willing to put into the relationship, because not everything you do brings instant gratification, especially in LDRs. You have to function with a long-term goal in mind, you have to be willing to endure hardships in order to have the reward at the end of the road because you know it's worth it. And a little time will tell if they think you're worth it, or if you think they are.

But anyway, yeah... >.>
I'm not a patient person but I will endure whatever I have to, for love.

[BluePikachu]

Oh God no. The only way that would make me crazy enough to get into another one is if the said man were worth it. Would I tell other people to WANT an LDR? NO! They don't deserve that much stress! I mean, if they had already been together for a year or more than sure, go for it. But for any other reason, NO!