Cliff notes version, we are both in our mid 30's and met while I was on vacation in June. I have visited him one more time, as I had something work related in his area. We talk, Skype, text daily and all in all he is a great man, very attentive and caring ect.
My question is I have a strange feeling and can not put on finger on it. When we first met we spoke briefly about his good friend (male)moving in with him for awhile. When I went to his town for work, I stayed at a hotel didn't know him well enough to even suggest staying at his place. We were inseparable when I was their and he ended up staying with me at the hotel, he said the roommate thing would just be awkward I can understand that. He never even took me to his house even going as far as a laundry mat to wash a few of his clothes. Odd, I was ok with it. Now, I have noticed we do not Skype if his roommate is home and only talk on the phone if he is outside when the roommate is there and then that is very rare if we talk and the roomate is around . Again this only happens when the roommate is there. When not, we talk usually twice a day, skyle a few days a week with texting through out the day and night.
It seems like something is off to me but I don't want to jump to conclusions, I do want to ask him about this behavior not sure how. If its just something I'm making a mountain of then I don't want to ruin what we have but it seems strange to me. Wanted to get thoughts on this before I said anything.
Thank you for any kind of advise!
My question is I have a strange feeling and can not put on finger on it. When we first met we spoke briefly about his good friend (male)moving in with him for awhile. When I went to his town for work, I stayed at a hotel didn't know him well enough to even suggest staying at his place. We were inseparable when I was their and he ended up staying with me at the hotel, he said the roommate thing would just be awkward I can understand that. He never even took me to his house even going as far as a laundry mat to wash a few of his clothes. Odd, I was ok with it. Now, I have noticed we do not Skype if his roommate is home and only talk on the phone if he is outside when the roommate is there and then that is very rare if we talk and the roomate is around . Again this only happens when the roommate is there. When not, we talk usually twice a day, skyle a few days a week with texting through out the day and night.
It seems like something is off to me but I don't want to jump to conclusions, I do want to ask him about this behavior not sure how. If its just something I'm making a mountain of then I don't want to ruin what we have but it seems strange to me. Wanted to get thoughts on this before I said anything.
Thank you for any kind of advise!
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