We have been long distance 6 months now. He is fabulous and amazing I have been fighting feeling insecure but its starting to feel like it consumes me at times and before I overreact to him I want to find out if Im making something from nothing. I have tried to explain this to him and he does not get it.
We talk once usually twice a day. Text which has been tapering off lately and Skype which also has been less lately. I think it has a lot to do with me trying to distance myself. He calls me on his way to work and his way home or on weekends when he is out running errands. I love talking to him but the feeling of I never get his full attention is starting to bother me. Why can't he talk to me at home, and just focus on me? Is that wrong to think that way? I feel like I'm only good enough when he can combine me into what he has going on. I feel like everything else gets his one on one attention but me.
Or am I just getting my feelings hurt over nothing? He is coming for a visit next month. I can't let it go until them the littlest things seem to cause these gaping situations and I'm at a loss. Help?
We talk once usually twice a day. Text which has been tapering off lately and Skype which also has been less lately. I think it has a lot to do with me trying to distance myself. He calls me on his way to work and his way home or on weekends when he is out running errands. I love talking to him but the feeling of I never get his full attention is starting to bother me. Why can't he talk to me at home, and just focus on me? Is that wrong to think that way? I feel like I'm only good enough when he can combine me into what he has going on. I feel like everything else gets his one on one attention but me.
Or am I just getting my feelings hurt over nothing? He is coming for a visit next month. I can't let it go until them the littlest things seem to cause these gaping situations and I'm at a loss. Help?
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