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    Was suppose to be my wedding day... 10-10-10

    Today was suppose to be our wedding day as most of you know. We are together this weekend...thank GOD. I decided to do a thanksgiving dinner...just in case we can't do another visit before the holiday.

    I am happy today.

    But also their is an underlying tone in my mood today...I am bummed. I want what I want NOW.

    Yes...a temper tantrum from yours truly.
    NY to Texas Married on...August 17th, 2013

    #2
    I'm sorry... I would be upset too.

    Thanksgiving dinner sounds wonderful!


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      #3
      Awe sweetie! That sucks, I would be horribly bummed too. I bet it was on your So's mind too. It'll happen eventually, sawying your vows and being legally married doesn't change your bond!
      Met: 1.20.09 (At School)
      Starting Dating: 5.22.09
      Been an LDR since: 8.17.10 (3 hours distance)
      Last Time I saw my SO: 10.02.10
      Next time I will see my SO: 10.14.10

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        #4
        I'd be cranky too. And I'm sure it's on his mind as well.

        At least you know it was pushed back due to circumstances beyond your control, and not because of something wrong with the two of you.

        The day will pass. Just spend it being together and in love...which is what you would have done anyway! I'd even suggest throwing on some music and dancing together, and having cake.

        If you look for it, I've got a sneaking suspicion...love actually is all around

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          #5
          I think in this case a temper tantrum is totally understandable This was supposed to be your day after an already very long and difficult wait.

          But you're strong and we all know you can do this I'm so happy you at least get to be with your loved one on this day and even without a ceremony don't waste a second in making it absolutely wonderful!

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            #6
            awww honey i know, and you will get there its just gonna take a little bit longer but eventually you'll guys will get married

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              #7
              You're handling that 'tantrum' better than you think, dear. At the very, very least you're together for that date even if it's not under the circumstances they were supposed to be. I'd rather be with my guy on the day our wedding was supposed to be than spend it alone, I'd feel worse. Stay strong, girl.

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                #8
                Temper Tantrum away...It's tough, but at least you are together and not home without him on today of all days!!

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                  #9
                  Awww, but at least you're with him!

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by LadyMarchHare View Post
                    You're handling that 'tantrum' better than you think, dear. At the very, very least you're together for that date even if it's not under the circumstances they were supposed to be. I'd rather be with my guy on the day our wedding was supposed to be than spend it alone, I'd feel worse. Stay strong, girl.

                    Indeed. I'm sure it helped a great deal being together. I'm sure you'll have another date set before you know it

                    Incidentally, I remember Tanja saying last year on 09-09-09 that she always thought dates like that would be good days to get married on, I thought it was a bit.. random, but I guess she's not the only one to think that haha!
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                      #11
                      I really don't think that anyone can blame you for a tantrum. Be patient and things will work out. You're fantastic, how could they not?


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                        #12
                        Aww girl I know it must be hard (oh wait it's the 11th now, but I'm going to send you some virtual hugs anyway!)
                        I hope the day went ok and that you guys had a fantastic Thanksgiving! Any day is a good day to be thankful for love, right?!

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