Fights...

[machstx]

It's not anything we actually fight/argue over, but there's been a little bit of distress once or twice because I'm a Tazmanian-Devil tornado of emotion and I show it ALL on the surface, whereas he's pretty much always outwardly cool and calm and collected. Sometimes it makes me feel a little bit like he might not care as much as I care about him- and I bring it up, and we talk and then I remember that he just doesn't show emotion like that (something I'm still getting used to) and that there about 100 other ways he shows me that he loves me

I relate to this SO much. It's nice to see im not the only one with crazy emotions.

[machstx]

We mostly fight about him going out alot with his friends. He to this day doesnt think he goes out alot. Plus he isnt very good at showing his emotions. So i feel little neglected sometimes. So i start fights or am moody because i miss him because he doesnt give me the attention i need.

[5000miles]

Mine is kind of the same as michy and machstx. We don't particularly fight... we just have misunderstandings because he teases a lot and sometimes I can't take a joke so well Me and my SO are both prone to keeping frustration to ourselves, which also causes misunderstandings. But we're pretty good at finally pushing ourselves to talking things out. We've never let one of these misunderstandings go by without talking it through. So I feel like we're dealing with things fairly well.

[Pixie]

We don't really fight. We went through a tough couple of months where we were both having a lot of trouble with depression and stuff and there was quite a bit of tears and snapping and general badness, but that's in the past now.

[NaNi]

We sometimes argue over the fact that I'm quite jealous. I don't like it when she meets her ex-boyfriend for example. Or I get these random images in my head how they kissed each other. It gets my blood pumping. I do think that I'm slowly getting better at dealing with that, but yeah...

[Kirschlein]

About communication issues. Pretty unnecessary... sometimes we even laugh afterwards because its so ridiculous XD

[Caitlin2009]

In my case we have two major recurrent fights: His smoking! (when we started dating i made sure he knew i could only be with him if he..someday..quit, so no surprise there!) he still hasnt..and i know its hard, but every now and then i get really upset and start a fight about it, we are still working on this. And my addiction to tattoos.. he haaates it..but i cant help it, i just love it so much, always did..i got my last one last year and promised to stop, i really dont wanna fight about something so silly anymore

my suggestion with his smoking is just to except it because its part of him, Denise smokes and i dont like it but ive come to accept it because its a part of her and yeah i would love to change it and have her stop but truth be told she has to when SHE wants to and theres nothing much i can do but love her like i always do

[sam]

Me and Elina dont "fight", really..
We have the usual er.. tensions? O_o

Just like last night... I was at work at 12 yesterday, and woke up pretty late (11 ). I was busy doing other things literally right until I walked in the door of my work, so I had no time to email/text her.
When I got back (at around 8:30) she was bascially having a go at me for not contacting her.. I had no time to, and having just got back from an 8 hour shift where I walked around constantely and never sat down, I was in no mood to argue/go on about it. Anyway, she left and went to bed when I just said that "i was busy" (which I was)

It's just things like that, that happens to us hah

[Veronica]

I completely understand where you are coming from Caitlin, i gave it a lot of thought. I know that he was already a smoker when i met him, and that it is a part of his life. But i did make sure that he knew i wasnt gonna live with it if we ended up together, and he agreed to quit someday. Of course i love him even tho he smokes, but unfortunately i am not willing to accept that forever, ive dealt with it before and it doesnt work for me, its just one thing i wont give up. I am gonna give him all the time he needs tho, but at some point he is gonna have to make up his mind. I believe that we all have to change our habits a bit to make a relationship work, for now we agreed on no smoking inside the house which i am pretty happy with.

[Caitlin2009]

i understand that, i told her once we move in together she is banned to the outside if she wants to smoke lol and she told me the other day when we have kids and shes pregnant she'll quit fully, i told i would hold her to that heh

[Veronica]

yeah! exactly! i think about that too, i feel really bad that im trying to change something about him..and its hard to keep a strong position, im just asking for an 'eventually quitting'..for now banned to the outside is good haha

[nicole]

we don't really fight, we had a disagreement aboput engagement rings the other week but that's about it. We have tensions and bad days of course, but we like to talk it out- we've both said neither of us ever wants to have a screaming match with each other if it can be easily avoided before it gets to that stage.

Oh we had one argument the other day where both of us were getting really angry.... what was it about? Who invented ice-cream. that is how dumb we are

[noodle]

Him being too stubborn and just not caring about other people hurting him... and similiar stuff.
Or I'm startin it due to my jealousy lol
A bunch of times it have been missunderstandings as well :/