Break Up.

[So_Far_Away]

So we've been close distance for three weeks and I broke it off yesterday. He's been having cyber sex (sorry if that is too adult....) with other girls on and off for our whole relationship. I count this as cheating, and I found out from him leaving himself logged in on facebook on my computer. The conversation he was having was open and ... Let's jsut say that he and this girl were both being very graphic and clearly both having a good time. I confronted him about it, and he told me it's been her for three months every so often and beofre that, a few other girls.

I don't know what other people count as cheating, but to me, having been in a LDR, this is just as bad as actually sleeping with someone.

So yeah. Bye everyone and thanks for all the support you've given me the last two years.

[Silviar]

Oh hun, I'm so sorry to hear this. *hugs*

I don't know if you'd consider still staying around and giving advice, but there are many people who would benefit from your knowledge around here, if you can consider still staying around.

[squiddie]

I'm sorry. But like Silviar said, it would be nice for you to stay around. Give us the benefit of your viewpoint and experience. I don't think anyone here wants you to leave, even if you're no longer in a relationship.

[So_Far_Away]

I think right now I need to be apart frome everything. This website was a big part of my relationship, and I need to be away (as much as you can when your lives are intwined) from everything which reminds me of him. I still love him so much. And if I hadn't found out I'd be happy still. I hate that I found out. Which is ridicules becuase I know it's better to know and not waste any more of my life on him...

[LadyMarchHare]

I understand the needing a break, it's still fresh and it still hurts like hell. I'm sorry you had to go through that, he's a fool for messing around on you. We all wish you the best of luck and hope one day you can return and offer advice to those who could use your insight from what you've experienced.

[Caitlin2009]

yeah i would consider that cheating, because he's got(or had you) why the hell would he want to do that with anybody else??? sorry to hear this but please stay!

[Snowy.Winter]

I'm so sorry to hear this has happened! I understand you need to get away from everything, but when you feel you can come back, we'll all be here if you ever need to talk.

[5000miles]

I'm so sorry this happened to you after all you guys have been through and finally closing the distance. *hugs* Stay strong and remember that you deserve to be treated better. We'll all be hoping you return some day.

[Veronica]

that is awful..i would consider it cheating too.. im sure youll find someone who will treat you how you deserve, and i hope you can get over this break up soon. Best of luck.

[Zephii]

That's terrible
This is one of my biggest fears (far worse than physical cheating to me) and I'm so sorry for your pain. We'll all miss you.

[faith5x5nomore]

Just remember you have great people on here if you need anyone to talk to you. Good luck to you

[paulawriteslove]

*hugs* i am so sorry to hear this. Be strong!

[H87]

I'm sooo sorry!! I can't imagine how hard that has to be. Are you going move back home? Or are you going stay where he is at? I wish you all the best!

[Karringtyn]

I am so sorry.

[bluepotato1236]

Aww im Sorry that you have to go through this..*Hug*