Hi =)
I have joined this group because I feel the only way to get through the time apart from my boyfriend is to share the tough times with people who understand what I am feeling.
People with good intentions, family and friends, say often "It will be ok, time will fly by," "He will be back before you know it," "I know how you feel," etc etc. They are doing the best they can to help me, but thats not enough, I need people who understand fully. And you guys do =)
Anyway a little about whats going on. I met my boyfriend in 2006. He spends 8 months of the year in the UK with me and 4 months in his home country with his family and friends. This is the 5th time he is going back within our relationship. He hasn't left yet, he leaves in 2 weeks time. And he comes back the first day in March. Normally every year I visit him. Normally in the middle to ease the missing feeling. But this year I havent got the funds to visit him. So it will be the first time I havent seen him for four months.
I know to some of you this isn't a long time. But after living together the majority of the year, to him leaving for 4 months, its kinda a big deal for me. And one where I look forward trying to be positive but just see a huge mountain to climb.
Anyway apologies for going on and on, I just wanted to say hi. And I hope we can all work through these hard times together =)
I have joined this group because I feel the only way to get through the time apart from my boyfriend is to share the tough times with people who understand what I am feeling.
People with good intentions, family and friends, say often "It will be ok, time will fly by," "He will be back before you know it," "I know how you feel," etc etc. They are doing the best they can to help me, but thats not enough, I need people who understand fully. And you guys do =)
Anyway a little about whats going on. I met my boyfriend in 2006. He spends 8 months of the year in the UK with me and 4 months in his home country with his family and friends. This is the 5th time he is going back within our relationship. He hasn't left yet, he leaves in 2 weeks time. And he comes back the first day in March. Normally every year I visit him. Normally in the middle to ease the missing feeling. But this year I havent got the funds to visit him. So it will be the first time I havent seen him for four months.
I know to some of you this isn't a long time. But after living together the majority of the year, to him leaving for 4 months, its kinda a big deal for me. And one where I look forward trying to be positive but just see a huge mountain to climb.
Anyway apologies for going on and on, I just wanted to say hi. And I hope we can all work through these hard times together =)
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