Hi everybody!
I just broke up with a guy who had a lot of these extreme mood changes...before he continuously said how much he loved me, that what we have is so amazing, that he would not leave me..
and today, he was like completely different person, he didnt even know if he loved me!! CRAZY!!
and he had had these mood swings earlier but NOT THAT dramatic..
so i dumped him!!
BUT i know that he was bullied a lot back at school, the guy is now gettin 22 and finishing off university. i know that he said that highschool had been a hell for him..that he started having some friends only at the very end.
and that these "friends" they like hack to his computer and once changed the language in arabic!! and that they add him to gay sex sites..etc etc
like WTF?! what kinda friends would do that?!
it is like, he is not physically attractive at all..really not masculine at all..so he told me once before that he had had only one girlfriend and that he had done so much to her and she had never appreciated him..and once he sent me a video and there was this girl too..and the way she looked at him...i mean, excuse me!! it was like...i donno...when u luv someone u dont look at him like that, it was more like...when u look someone and u consider them moron or sth, u see?? like this despicable look a bit.. so that shocked me a lot!
and that he is so terribly afraid of being cheated upon...
and i remember he had once said he wud like to have a family bef he is 30 because otherwise he wud end up lonely and then his friends WOULD LEAVE HIM BEHIND..
So...what does become of these people who have been loners so long and DESPERATELY search for attention?
I sense a lot of embitterment in him now...
Are these poeple EVER capable of being fully normal people/partners? :S
I just broke up with a guy who had a lot of these extreme mood changes...before he continuously said how much he loved me, that what we have is so amazing, that he would not leave me..
and today, he was like completely different person, he didnt even know if he loved me!! CRAZY!!
and he had had these mood swings earlier but NOT THAT dramatic..
so i dumped him!!
BUT i know that he was bullied a lot back at school, the guy is now gettin 22 and finishing off university. i know that he said that highschool had been a hell for him..that he started having some friends only at the very end.
and that these "friends" they like hack to his computer and once changed the language in arabic!! and that they add him to gay sex sites..etc etc
like WTF?! what kinda friends would do that?!
it is like, he is not physically attractive at all..really not masculine at all..so he told me once before that he had had only one girlfriend and that he had done so much to her and she had never appreciated him..and once he sent me a video and there was this girl too..and the way she looked at him...i mean, excuse me!! it was like...i donno...when u luv someone u dont look at him like that, it was more like...when u look someone and u consider them moron or sth, u see?? like this despicable look a bit.. so that shocked me a lot!
and that he is so terribly afraid of being cheated upon...
and i remember he had once said he wud like to have a family bef he is 30 because otherwise he wud end up lonely and then his friends WOULD LEAVE HIM BEHIND..
So...what does become of these people who have been loners so long and DESPERATELY search for attention?
I sense a lot of embitterment in him now...
Are these poeple EVER capable of being fully normal people/partners? :S
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