Hello everyone,
Im quite new here and I kindly ask you for your help and advise!!
Im in a LDR since almost 8 months and we have been together since last november 2009...
Hes a Kiwi NZ and im Swiss.
We love us very much and every day seems like a torture and honestly im whiny all the time, could cry every day because of missing him so bad.
My parents didnt like me to be in a relationship with him already when i was in Australia where I met him because they knew I would be very sad and it would be hard to leave for me...
Well the past months being back home I suffered so much and I decided to tell my parents about our plan to get reunited next april...
So, I did tell them and it was the biggest fight we ever had!!!!!!! Maybe you should know, Im an only child and their everything so they are very scared to lose me..
But this what happend seemed to be a real desaster :-(((
Then I wanted to compromise with them to let my boyfriend come to visite me in Switzerland over X-mass but my mother said she doesnt want to have that guy in her house.
Then I said, but I could just go for a holiday and she said you just want to go to him and then you wont come back anymore, well maybe in 2 years without him but with children...
She also said im so innocent and ist stupid to think that a guy from the other sied of the worl is waiting for me. He has already another girl why you are so stupid girl??
Im really at the end. I dont want to lose him, he doesnt want to lose me neither!!
I just dont know what to do anymore...well im going to be 21 next month so they coulndt do anything if I would go to live with him.
What would you do? Could you give me some advise please? Im so desperate..
I really cant live like this, it seems there is no sense in getting up and to know he isnt here...
Oh and I want to say sorry if its difficult to understand my english is getting worse.
And Im also sorry for that very long treat but my feelings just bluster out!!
Im quite new here and I kindly ask you for your help and advise!!
Im in a LDR since almost 8 months and we have been together since last november 2009...
Hes a Kiwi NZ and im Swiss.
We love us very much and every day seems like a torture and honestly im whiny all the time, could cry every day because of missing him so bad.
My parents didnt like me to be in a relationship with him already when i was in Australia where I met him because they knew I would be very sad and it would be hard to leave for me...
Well the past months being back home I suffered so much and I decided to tell my parents about our plan to get reunited next april...
So, I did tell them and it was the biggest fight we ever had!!!!!!! Maybe you should know, Im an only child and their everything so they are very scared to lose me..
But this what happend seemed to be a real desaster :-(((
Then I wanted to compromise with them to let my boyfriend come to visite me in Switzerland over X-mass but my mother said she doesnt want to have that guy in her house.
Then I said, but I could just go for a holiday and she said you just want to go to him and then you wont come back anymore, well maybe in 2 years without him but with children...
She also said im so innocent and ist stupid to think that a guy from the other sied of the worl is waiting for me. He has already another girl why you are so stupid girl??
Im really at the end. I dont want to lose him, he doesnt want to lose me neither!!
I just dont know what to do anymore...well im going to be 21 next month so they coulndt do anything if I would go to live with him.
What would you do? Could you give me some advise please? Im so desperate..
I really cant live like this, it seems there is no sense in getting up and to know he isnt here...
Oh and I want to say sorry if its difficult to understand my english is getting worse.
And Im also sorry for that very long treat but my feelings just bluster out!!
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