Scheduling time to talk didnt really work for us. I think it works for some people on here, but we talked way more than we were supposed to, so we gave up. We only tried it during school anyway, and it was more like "ok, I have a lot to do today, I can only talk for 1 hour." I think at the beginning it would be good to try it. He'll see that you are making an effort to stay connected to him from so far away.
But unexpected things come up all the time, like if all of a sudden his friends are like "come out with us!" I wouldnt stop him from going out. I think that if we had scheduled our time and I had been looking forward to it, then I would be a bit upset that he just left like that. But we have been very lucky because we skype everyday, even during our really busy periods at school.
We met in person while I was on vacation, and we decided to try it long distance, so we have never been CD. Either way it will be a huge adjustment, and it will take a LONG time to get used to.
But unexpected things come up all the time, like if all of a sudden his friends are like "come out with us!" I wouldnt stop him from going out. I think that if we had scheduled our time and I had been looking forward to it, then I would be a bit upset that he just left like that. But we have been very lucky because we skype everyday, even during our really busy periods at school.
We met in person while I was on vacation, and we decided to try it long distance, so we have never been CD. Either way it will be a huge adjustment, and it will take a LONG time to get used to.
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