Okay I'm a new member be gentle with me this is the first time I've ever done this sort of thing.
Basically I'm just trying to get other people's opinions on how to make this easier than this for myself and my special other, a little background first.
I first started chatting to her around 9 years ago via chatrooms and MSN I was 15 she was 14 we never had a crush on each other back then but we eventually fell out of touch with each other then when I was 17 she found me again and we started chatting again and picked up exactly where we left off then we started calling each other then she got banned from using the phone as she'd racked up a $1,000 phone bill!
We fell out of touch again and I thought I'd never hear from her again then around 18 months ago after years of not speaking I get a friend request on facebook...see where this is going she found me yet again and I was over the moon though we didn't get to talk as much as we wanted we stayed in contact then a few days ago she told me that for the last 7 years she's had me in her mind every minute of every day and that my voice used to drive her wild. I explained that I was the same and that not a minute went by where I didn't wonder how she is etc...
The problem comes from the fact that she lives in a small town in Minnesota and I live in Nottingham, England now we've struck up this relationship and financial budgets have changed a little and we can call each other whenever we're thinking of one-another but the problem is we can't get over the fact that we're so far apart. We love each other so much that it's unbelievable and she plans to spend some time in England with me in February but it seems like years away is there any way this gets easier. Right now family problems are driving me to the point where I just want to up sticks and head straight to Minnesota and she's the same way but our budgets don't stretch that far...does anybody know any way we can overcome these struggles or could someone just tell us straight away that we're crazy for even thinking this may work we're so confused about it right now!
Basically I'm just trying to get other people's opinions on how to make this easier than this for myself and my special other, a little background first.
I first started chatting to her around 9 years ago via chatrooms and MSN I was 15 she was 14 we never had a crush on each other back then but we eventually fell out of touch with each other then when I was 17 she found me again and we started chatting again and picked up exactly where we left off then we started calling each other then she got banned from using the phone as she'd racked up a $1,000 phone bill!
We fell out of touch again and I thought I'd never hear from her again then around 18 months ago after years of not speaking I get a friend request on facebook...see where this is going she found me yet again and I was over the moon though we didn't get to talk as much as we wanted we stayed in contact then a few days ago she told me that for the last 7 years she's had me in her mind every minute of every day and that my voice used to drive her wild. I explained that I was the same and that not a minute went by where I didn't wonder how she is etc...
The problem comes from the fact that she lives in a small town in Minnesota and I live in Nottingham, England now we've struck up this relationship and financial budgets have changed a little and we can call each other whenever we're thinking of one-another but the problem is we can't get over the fact that we're so far apart. We love each other so much that it's unbelievable and she plans to spend some time in England with me in February but it seems like years away is there any way this gets easier. Right now family problems are driving me to the point where I just want to up sticks and head straight to Minnesota and she's the same way but our budgets don't stretch that far...does anybody know any way we can overcome these struggles or could someone just tell us straight away that we're crazy for even thinking this may work we're so confused about it right now!
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