I wanted to know if anyone else has a SO who communicates with them LESS after a visit? Or, if there is a change in communication at all after a visit?
For the few days following a visit with my boyfriend, he usually doesn't really talk much to me. I should be used to it by now because it has been that way since the very beginning. We visit each other about every 2-5 weeks. He told me that he is always pretty bummed out and depressed after we visit, so he kind of keeps to himself for a few days to get through it. I am glad I have an explanation, yet I still get insecure every time! Also, I wish he'd talk to me instead of keeping his feelings to himself. I was just wondering if anyone else goes through this or if it is just a unique thing I go through.
Personally, I want to talk to him more/just the same as usual after a visit, so usually my solution is that I write him a letter, so that I still get to communicate but I am not bothering him at the same time. I find that the more times I see him, the harder it is for me to step off communicating after a visit. It's just hard for me because I miss him and want to talk. At the same time I want to give him the "mourning period" he needs. I left him yesterday morning and have barely heard from him, except one little phone call to see if I made it home and a couple text messages.
For the few days following a visit with my boyfriend, he usually doesn't really talk much to me. I should be used to it by now because it has been that way since the very beginning. We visit each other about every 2-5 weeks. He told me that he is always pretty bummed out and depressed after we visit, so he kind of keeps to himself for a few days to get through it. I am glad I have an explanation, yet I still get insecure every time! Also, I wish he'd talk to me instead of keeping his feelings to himself. I was just wondering if anyone else goes through this or if it is just a unique thing I go through.
Personally, I want to talk to him more/just the same as usual after a visit, so usually my solution is that I write him a letter, so that I still get to communicate but I am not bothering him at the same time. I find that the more times I see him, the harder it is for me to step off communicating after a visit. It's just hard for me because I miss him and want to talk. At the same time I want to give him the "mourning period" he needs. I left him yesterday morning and have barely heard from him, except one little phone call to see if I made it home and a couple text messages.
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