Anyway, How do you and your beloved fight?
The one fight we had, it was basically just heated talking. He got very authoritative (he thought I did something so he was wanting evidence I didn't) and I got minorly defensive. Lasted minutes.
Is there yelling and such, or do you just talk it out?
When he's mad, he shuts up and won't talk to you. Me, I yell, but we've never really had one that brought out either. We've had misunderstandings where one gets upset and asks 20 questions but thassit.
Whats the most serious argument you have ever gotten into?
I had left a rather dark status message on AIM one night, he IMed me the next day thinking I had cut myself (I used to have an addiction to it) and was mad/upset/scared and demanded I prove I hadn't hurt myself so I took pictures of my wrists and showed him. He then went on about how if I had done anything he wouldn't have talked to me for a week. The second was probably when he made no contact with me for 3 weeks and my 'friend' convinced me he was dead/cheating so I gave him an earful. Turns out it was my bad for certain reasons, luckily he wasn't angry.
Do you ever have to stop yourself from yelling about certain things?
To other people, yeah. I've never yelled at my SO or him, me. I don't even whine to him about if he doesn't talk that often or other things, but I guess that's because I have this forum to do that on, haha.
The one fight we had, it was basically just heated talking. He got very authoritative (he thought I did something so he was wanting evidence I didn't) and I got minorly defensive. Lasted minutes.
Is there yelling and such, or do you just talk it out?
When he's mad, he shuts up and won't talk to you. Me, I yell, but we've never really had one that brought out either. We've had misunderstandings where one gets upset and asks 20 questions but thassit.
Whats the most serious argument you have ever gotten into?
I had left a rather dark status message on AIM one night, he IMed me the next day thinking I had cut myself (I used to have an addiction to it) and was mad/upset/scared and demanded I prove I hadn't hurt myself so I took pictures of my wrists and showed him. He then went on about how if I had done anything he wouldn't have talked to me for a week. The second was probably when he made no contact with me for 3 weeks and my 'friend' convinced me he was dead/cheating so I gave him an earful. Turns out it was my bad for certain reasons, luckily he wasn't angry.
Do you ever have to stop yourself from yelling about certain things?
To other people, yeah. I've never yelled at my SO or him, me. I don't even whine to him about if he doesn't talk that often or other things, but I guess that's because I have this forum to do that on, haha.
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